lolo7 Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 ok............. to make a long story short a long time ago when i was younger ( starting at about 5 or 6 years of age) my stepfather started molesting me. And it continued on through out until high school. I told my mom about it but she never seemed to believe me. Until i told one of my coaches in volleyball. So my volleyball coach immeadiately called the cops and and he was arrested. He only was in custody for about a few hours and then he was released. My mom took me to the doc that same week and the doctors told her nothing was wrong with me. I clearly heard when one of the doctors told her "maybe she's just jelous of your marriage and she just doesnt like her new "dad" "........ and still my mother didnt believe me. And now im 20 years old and we dont talk about it anymore. But i think what he did to me affected me in many ways. and then.....my moms lack of support and understanding also affected me they seperated a while after because he left my mom for his own cousin. ( so gross) Now i dont live with my mom. In way its ok now but i heard some rumors that they were going to get back together. In a way it hurt me because of everything that happend. And because it feels that my mom is picking him over me. And ever since i moved out she hasnt asked me to come back. In a way it feel like shes glad that i left so now she can be with him. im really hurt by this, but i didnt tell her anything. should i say something to her? also, how can i go about getting over this trauma. i really hate that man for all that he did to me!! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 8, 2006 Share Posted August 8, 2006 Talk to your mother. Even if she doesn't respond well at least you know that you made an attempt to reach out to her. If she does not believe you, or ignores you, then it probably would be best to step away from that relationship while she is involved with your abuser. If possible seek out a qualified, licensed mental health practitioner who is specifically trained in molestation and rape issues. This is a difficult thing to deal with and overcome and you do need help to deal with it. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 im so bored and horney call me 694 2783ok.............well i dont know how to start i love my step dad he makes me fricking horney,send me mail candyandcundy@aol.om to make a long story short a long time ago when i was younger ( starting at about 5 or 6 years of age) my stepfather started molesting me. And it continued on through out until high school. I told my mom about it but she never seemed to believe me. Until i told one of my coaches in volleyball. So my volleyball coach immeadiately called the cops and and he was arrested. He only was in custody for about a few hours and then he was released. My mom took me to the doc that same week and the doctors told her nothing was wrong with me. I clearly heard when one of the doctors told her "maybe she's just jelous of your marriage and she just doesnt like her new "dad" "........ and still my mother didnt believe me. And now im 20 years old and we dont talk about it anymore. But i think what he did to me affected me in many ways. and then.....my moms lack of support and understanding also affected me they seperated a while after because he left my mom for his own cousin. ( so gross) Now i dont live with my mom. In way its ok now but i heard some rumors that they were going to get back together. In a way it hurt me because of everything that happend. And because it feels that my mom is picking him over me. And ever since i moved out she hasnt asked me to come back. In a way it feel like shes glad that i left so now she can be with him. im really hurt by this, but i didnt tell her anything. should i say something to her? also, how can i go about getting over this trauma. i really hate that man for all that he did to me!! Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts