would he take me back?

[dominsane]

So...I didn't know if this would go under this section, or the "break up" section...

 

My ex broke up with me almost a month ago...

It was pretty unexpected.

At first, he claimed that he needed some time to himself because of health issues..then he tell me he left because of what I wanted to do with my future...

But when we were together, he told me that I was the first girlfriend he had that didn't try to change him, he told me secrets that he never told anyone else...

He told me I changed his life. He quit smoking on the day he met me, he stopped doing a bunch of other stuff when he met me(like hurting himself).

And I still don't have a clear understanding of why he left. I still love him. We were together for almost a year. He asked me to marry him. My first time was with him.

There was nothing extremely wrong with our relationship.

I mean, we had our little fights, but we never had any big fights.

I was over my father's house(almost 1000 miles away).

We called each other every day. One day, we were fine, the next day, he told me he needed some time to himself. He said maybe a few weeks or so.

He told me that he didn't want to date me anymore because he says I stalked him(because I called him twice and went to the mall-where he works- also twice..and because I say "hi" to him when I see him online..in this month).

I don't consider that stalking...

But the main reason why I'm writing this, is because I wanted to know if he might ever take me back.

My best friend is his brother's girlfriend, and she keeps telling me that he's "getting better" meaning he wasn't as sad or stressed out.

I haven't called him, and I won't unless it's something extremely important, I avoid where he works when I go to the mall, but I'll say "hi" online, but that's it.

 

I'm giving him his space...and he recently told me that he didn't want to hang out because he didn't want to get "attached" again.

 

Sorry for the long post, but do you think he would ever take me back?

I don't even know what went wrong that would cause me to break up with me.

 

I don't know if there's anything else I should do. I still love him. And I want to know if it's possible that he would take me back.

 

Thanks for your help...

[Guest]

So...I didn't know if this would go under this section, or the "break up" section...

 

My ex broke up with me almost a month ago...

It was pretty unexpected.

At first, he claimed that he needed some time to himself because of health issues..then he tell me he left because of what I wanted to do with my future...

But when we were together, he told me that I was the first girlfriend he had that didn't try to change him, he told me secrets that he never told anyone else...

He told me I changed his life. He quit smoking on the day he met me, he stopped doing a bunch of other stuff when he met me(like hurting himself).

And I still don't have a clear understanding of why he left. I still love him. We were together for almost a year. He asked me to marry him. My first time was with him.

There was nothing extremely wrong with our relationship.

I mean, we had our little fights, but we never had any big fights.

I was over my father's house(almost 1000 miles away).

We called each other every day. One day, we were fine, the next day, he told me he needed some time to himself. He said maybe a few weeks or so.

He told me that he didn't want to date me anymore because he says I stalked him(because I called him twice and went to the mall-where he works- also twice..and because I say "hi" to him when I see him online..in this month).

I don't consider that stalking...

But the main reason why I'm writing this, is because I wanted to know if he might ever take me back.

My best friend is his brother's girlfriend, and she keeps telling me that he's "getting better" meaning he wasn't as sad or stressed out.

I haven't called him, and I won't unless it's something extremely important, I avoid where he works when I go to the mall, but I'll say "hi" online, but that's it.

 

I'm giving him his space...and he recently told me that he didn't want to hang out because he didn't want to get "attached" again.

 

Sorry for the long post, but do you think he would ever take me back?

I don't even know what went wrong that would cause me to break up with me.

 

I don't know if there's anything else I should do. I still love him. And I want to know if it's possible that he would take me back.

 

Thanks for your help...

 

 

I'm guessing you both are very young. He probably just doesn't know what he wants. If you chase/pursue him, he will not come back. Let him come to you. In the meantime occupy your time as best you can with friends and hobbies. Time will fly by and you might meet someone more deserving of your love and affection.

[Ukwizard]

Hi Guest,

 

Your post sounds very similar to mine. When my ex left me, she didn`t give me the closure I needed.

 

To me the reasons why he left really arent that great such as,

 

because he says I stalked him(because I called him twice and went to the mall-where he works- also twice..and because I say "hi" to him when I see him online..in this month).

 

However

 

he stopped doing a bunch of other stuff when he met me(like hurting himself).

 

Maybe he`s started hurting himself again, and is avoiding you so you don`t see the scars.

 

If you do ever speak to him. You have to communicate to him effectively to find the route of the problem.

 

Maybe he`s suffering from depression. If he`s hurting himself then, he may need proffesional help.

[Ukwizard]

Oh, I forgot to mention to the OTHER Guest, who posted.

 

There is no need to copy the whole post all over again. Especially when your the post directly below it!!

 

This saves up on space, and memory on Love Shack.