Family......

[Bloodryne]

I have been liveing at home for about a month. I have talked to my family about moveing to Ca where my boyfriend lives,we have been dateing for almost a year and I'm deeply in love with him. But what really made my family go off the deep end is he is 18 years old....and I'm 28...I know it's not right and all but I love him. we meet on the internet like my last boyfriend..my last one..well I had alot of sorrow from him to keep it short.

And when my current boyfriend came along he acts as if he is more older then he seems his wisedom per say. I have talked to my family too many times then i can count and they keep telling me he will find someone else forget him,tell him to come and vist or live down hear and the list just keeps going. You see he is going to collage,has a job and talking care of his aunts daughter and he still lives at home with a overprotective mother.

 

thank you for listening to me I hope someone can help.

[littlekitty]

At 28 your decisions are your own to make.

 

But your family do have a point that at 18 he may not be ready to make such a commitment and likely he will change over the next 10 years.

 

Where were you living before you moved back home? What caused you to move back home?

 

What are your reasons for considering this move? What will you be leaving? A job, family, friends?

 

How many times have you met your bf in real life? How long have you spent together at a time? Would you be moving in with him, or just near to him?

 

What worries you most?

[Bloodryne]

I moved back home because my ex-boyfriend was useing me..plus lack of food in the house.

If i do move down to Ca I would be liveing close by.

I have never meet this guy in rl..i only talk to him on the internet or the phone..he has send me a pic of him,and I of myself.

what worrys me is I'll never get to see him if my family has anything to say about it.

I really wish to meet this guy but each time I ask him he seems different.

I have asked him to vist down hear but he keeps saying his mother will not let him go to another state..I guess as long as he lives at home,or if he ever leaves home he will remain the same.

but My mother and stepdad have broken the trust beteen me and them..they look at my mail sometimes...they listen in to who I talk to on the phone..and if i say something to my mother and tell her not to tell anyone she goes ahead and tells others. this is why I left in the first place and this is why I wish to move again far away. And start a new life with this guy but as long as he lives at home,it will remain the same.