The sterotype of women on his behalf is not right

[Brittjean06]

So I guess another one of his threads was deleted?

 

I took no effense to that. Its pretty evident that those are signs of bitterness and unhappiness

 

How on earth is it possible that a man know not one good woman?

[Pyro]

So I guess another one of his threads was deleted?

 

I took no effense to that. Its pretty evident that those are signs of bitterness and unhappiness

 

How on earth is it possible that a man know not one good woman?

 

Some men, and women get so frustrated if they have a spell of bad luck with the opposite sex, so it seems easier to blame the entire gender for there bad luck.

 

Everyone is entitled to there opinions on here, but he could have shared his opinions in a way that was not so offensive and rude.

[Brittjean06]

I know. I remember always having the mind set of " all men are jerks " and it was easy to put the blame on them. But I look at it 50 50 now I meen we all are human and no one is perfect. I just wish some people could see beyond sterotypes. Oh well

[Pyro]

I just wish some people could see beyond sterotypes. Oh well

 

You and me both.

[lovestruck234]

He probably has a bit of PMS....

[Pyro]

He probably has a bit of PMS....

 

No comment

 

I'd hate to have this thread deleted as well.

[lovestruck234]

I'm sorry...look in all seriousness, The Riddler is right...and I had mentioned it as well..

 

People who get hurt by men/women often refer to ALL of them as...well, whatever they refer to them as...

 

I do feel sorry for them in a way...I guess. But they should see counselling or something to help them deal.

 

Do they really want to carry all this anger around with them forever?

 

Ahh, sorry moderators..please don't hate me or delete this thread. My bad!

[Pyro]

People who get hurt by men/women often refer to ALL of them as...well, whatever they refer to them as...

 

I do feel sorry for them in a way...I guess. But they should see counselling or something to help them deal.

 

Do they really want to carry all this anger around with them forever?

 

 

I agree that they should get some help, whether it be some supportive friends/family, or a professional.

 

I had always thought that carrying the anger was a temporary thing, but for some that I have talked to...I don't know. Its the easier thing to do and now-a-days people are down for whatever is easier for them.

[lovestruck234]

...I don't know. Its the easier thing to do and now-a-days people are down for whatever is easier for them.

 

Hmmm....I guess it's so so sad, but so so true.

 

I think I would only take that sort of talk that was discussed in the deleted thread from say, an 80 yr old who has had years and years of experience...

 

Really, I'm in NO position to judge like that, cos compared to someone older, I've had ZILCH experience to be able to throw around accusations like that.

 

Maybe people like that are just looking in the wrong places at the wrong times?

[Pyro]

Hmmm....I guess it's so so sad, but so so true.

 

I think I would only take that sort of talk that was discussed in the deleted thread from say, an 80 yr old who has had years and years of experience...

 

Really, I'm in NO position to judge like that, cos compared to someone older, I've had ZILCH experience to be able to throw around accusations like that.

 

Maybe people like that are just looking in the wrong places at the wrong times?

 

 

It is impossible to ever say that an entire country's gender is the exact same way. You can have all the experience you want, but its complete ludacris to say that one countries entire male, or female population all act in the same way.

 

I really do feel sorry for those who think like that. Unfortunately, I think that only one true good experience will be the only thing that will snap them out of it. But, how are you suppose to have a good experience if you are only going to think negatively about them?

[Walk]

Kind of like that saying "If you think you can or think you can't, then you will" something like that... Your mindset determines the outcome. And if you think you will always run into women who hate you, then you will.

 

What I see is a theme with some of the female bashers. They all place external beauty as the highest denominator. Looks come absolutely first, all else is second. But then they say the person also has to be intelligent, caring, wonderful and witty. Well, not that those traits aren't found in beautiful women (lovestruck234), but those women are going to be swept off the market in a heart beat... which leaves us plain janes to battle it out. hahah

 

I was also thinking... since usually the female bashers are also the ones who insist that women only want money... If you were a gorgeous woman inside and out, you would want a man who is a bit of a cut above the rest. Not out of ego, but because the pool of potential candidates is larger. So for a "flawed" man to capture the attention of great woman.. I could see how he would assume it'd all come down to more money. Because he isn't offering her anything good on the inside, A skewed out look on the world. A bitter attitude, and lack of respect for her gender. He's not willing to change the inside, so he looks outward for the reasons she won't date him. Plus they all seem to share a very strong sense of denial about who they are. Very defensive, and unwilling to look too deeply inside of themselves. Not sure if it's out of fear, ignorance, or disgust.

 

I'm sure it's even that much more insulting to them when a "plain jane" ignores them. Since they didn't even want her to begin with... to have a girl they thought beneath what they deserve reject them, would be a harsh blow to their ego's.

 

And since they refuse to see the problem lies inside themselves.. then someone else is to blame and we're their closest source of contempt.

[stoopid_guy]

Kind of like that saying "If you think you can or think you can't, then you will" something like that... Your mindset determines the outcome. And if you think you will always run into women who hate you, then you will.

Exactly, it's called a "self-fullfilling prophecy." Unfortunately, the only one who can really fix it is the person who has it...

[Pyro]

Kind of like that saying "If you think you can or think you can't, then you will" something like that... Your mindset determines the outcome. And if you think you will always run into women who hate you, then you will.

 

What I see is a theme with some of the female bashers. They all place external beauty as the highest denominator. Looks come absolutely first, all else is second. But then they say the person also has to be intelligent, caring, wonderful and witty. Well, not that those traits aren't found in beautiful women (lovestruck234), but those women are going to be swept off the market in a heart beat... which leaves us plain janes to battle it out. hahah

 

I was also thinking... since usually the female bashers are also the ones who insist that women only want money... If you were a gorgeous woman inside and out, you would want a man who is a bit of a cut above the rest. Not out of ego, but because the pool of potential candidates is larger. So for a "flawed" man to capture the attention of great woman.. I could see how he would assume it'd all come down to more money. Because he isn't offering her anything good on the inside, A skewed out look on the world. A bitter attitude, and lack of respect for her gender. He's not willing to change the inside, so he looks outward for the reasons she won't date him. Plus they all seem to share a very strong sense of denial about who they are. Very defensive, and unwilling to look too deeply inside of themselves. Not sure if it's out of fear, ignorance, or disgust.

 

I'm sure it's even that much more insulting to them when a "plain jane" ignores them. Since they didn't even want her to begin with... to have a girl they thought beneath what they deserve reject them, would be a harsh blow to their ego's.

 

And since they refuse to see the problem lies inside themselves.. then someone else is to blame and we're their closest source of contempt.

 

Very well put Walk.

[Brittjean06]

See I really took no effense to what he pronounced. It simply looked like a guy who was just surrounded by too many of the wrong type of women, and a little bit of being hurt probaly. I honestly can't really blame him if this is all he has known of women, because we all know how girls can be at their worst..same with guys too. So I just feel bad for him for not being able to meet a good down to earth type of girl rather than those stupid girls. He really shoulden't have taken it to that tempermental level but oh well.

[lovestruck234]

What I see is a theme with some of the female bashers. They all place external beauty as the highest denominator. Looks come absolutely first, all else is second. But then they say the person also has to be intelligent, caring, wonderful and witty. Well, not that those traits aren't found in beautiful women (lovestruck234), but those women are going to be swept off the market in a heart beat... which leaves us plain janes to battle it out. hahah

 

Walky baby, this is the 2nd lovely comment you've made about me....I am hinting a little crushy crushy??

 

Lol I'm joking...thank you for the compliment! Your lovely!

[HokeyReligions]

Made me think of something that happened today in a meeting. I was talking with a female coworker and a male coworker. The female was making a commet about 'men' and said "no offense Joe, but men can be such...." I said, "yes they can - so can women" and Joe is nodding and commented that he was glad I said it because he thought it but thought better of saying it outloud.

 

There is an old saying that is true and can have a profound effect on someone if they think about it seriously: The only consistency in all of your failed relationships is YOU. Kind of speaks to those "why do I only attract losers?" posts.

[lindya]

There is an old saying that is true and can have a profound effect on someone if they think about it seriously: The only consistency in all of your failed relationships is YOU. Kind of speaks to those "why do I only attract losers?" posts.

 

This also reminds me of an old folk tale I've read in a couple of places. Waiting rooms, probably - as it's got that Reader's Digest flavour about it:

 

An old man is sitting on a park bench watching ducks swim in a nearby pond, when he's joined by a stranger. The stranger says

 

"I'm new in town. Can you tell me a bit about this place?"

 

"Certainly," replies the old man. "Tell me, though, what was the place you came from like?"

 

"Awful. Full of hateful, superficial people who don't give a damn about their fellow man. I came here to escape from people like that."

 

"That's a pity," says the old man gravely, "because you'll find people exactly the same here."

 

The stranger gets up and walks away in disgust. Then another stranger comes along. He starts up a similar conversation with the old man. When asked about the place he came from:

 

"Great. Really warm and friendly. I'm going to miss it, but I had to move here for work purposes. I'm hoping it won't take me too long to settle in and be as happy here."

 

"It won't take you any time at all" the old man reassures him.

[Walk]

Walky baby, this is the 2nd lovely comment you've made about me....I am hinting a little crushy crushy??

 

Lol I'm joking...thank you for the compliment! Your lovely!

 

Sorry to dissappoint, but I'm as hetero as they come.. No box munchin' for me.

 

Seriously... I really like your down to earth attitude. And I get this sense that you don't really see yourself as a beautiful person. Maybe I'm wrong in that. But I think that's part of the reason that I like you, because you aren't stuck on the outside of you, but you come from inside first... your outer appearance isn't all you are.