lakers_4_life Posted August 10, 2006 Share Posted August 10, 2006 hello...i have the worst problem ever...me and this girl have been friends for about 2 years. over time our relationship has grown to being very close. theres nothing that we wont do for each other, nothing that we dont talk about... unless it has to do with her boyfriend. thats rite... i sed boyfriend. haha...i kno its stupid of me to fall for someone that has been in a relationship for as long as they have, but wat can i do?? i juss cant get this girl outta my head... one day we were talking and we were talking about how i dont like her boyfriend. i told her that hes too controlling and hes not rite for her...then she told me that its too late now, that if she had met me before him than she wouldve probally not have gotten with the guy if i told her i dont like him..she says shes too into the relationship to get out of it now even if she wanted to. i can see that she really does love her boyfriend, but there are times wen i c that she does have feelings for me. our friends say that were gonna end up getting married, that if she does cheat on her boyfriend its gonna be with me. we juss laugh and look at each other wen they say this. but deep down i really wanna juss grab her and tell her how much i love her and how much i care about her. iv tried to meet other girls but it juss dont work...ill meet a new girl and try to build a relationship with her but it always comes back to me thinking about HER. i really want to tell her how i feel but if i do tell her will it ruin our friendship?? i dont want that to happen cuz i care about this girl so much and even if i cant be with her i still wanna be there for her when she needs me to. I NEED HELP!!! please let me kno wat i can do to find out if she has feelings for me and if you guys think i should tell her how i feel. Link to post Share on other sites
TJettman Posted August 11, 2006 Share Posted August 11, 2006 You have to ask yourself, do you like torture or do you love her. Settling for being a friend just to be near them is torture. Why don't you just ask her boyfriend to kick your ass everyday? Tell her dammit! Link to post Share on other sites
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