jgrandst Posted August 12, 2006 Share Posted August 12, 2006 Ok, im 19, just starting a Long distance relationship with the love of my life. We have been together for 1 yr and 11mo. We have never had a serious fight, or had complications, but since the distance has come into play we seem to be having more problems. I trust her with all my heart, but some of the guys who happen to be good friends of hers has started asking her out and trying to get closer since we have been apart. I'm (admittadly) starting to get uncomfortable with the guys around her. I'm very...poor is the way youd say it i guess, at the moment and i dont have a phone so we have been communicating over the internet. I am curious if anyone has any suggestions on how i could possibly become more comfortable with the situation, or any ideas on what i could do for her, to make her feel special as i am finally out of ideas, and i cant afford very much. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 Even if you're short on cash, you can still afford some cheap stamps right? Handwritten letters (doesn't have to be anything fancy, just looseleaf) are nice, no matter how many times you do it. Maybe write down an entire day one day, letting her know about your thoughts as you go along, and send it. If you have a computer that can burn CD's then get a few blanks (they don't cost much these days) and burn her a CD/send it in the mail. Things don't have to be expensive to mean a whole lot. If you're going to see her, maybe give her one of your shirts to wear, or something like that. As for other guys...yeah this is natural, i guess. My boyfriend is alot like this. However, no matter how many guys ask me out, I only want him. The one thing that makes him feel better about it is me telling him he's the only one I want. Maybe try getting her to tell you her feelings about you when you start to feel this way. Link to post Share on other sites
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