Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Oh god that was too funny! Thanks, Aria! I needed a laugh right about now! But you do know that he's only old enough to be your dad and not your grandfather right? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hahahah But you do know that he's only old enough to be your dad and not your grandfather right? Yeah... but he look more like grandpa Sighhh... Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Yeee... You were right Touche it seems The fwb just called and asked me to come over his house, and says that he "doesn't have a gf" and that he misses me. So I told him, I miss you too, but you replaced me... No, I didn't replace you, you know you are irreplaceable (yeah, he is good to seduce talk) And asked me what I did today so I told him this guy in the park asked me out on a date.... (I just didn't tell him the grandpa part, so he must think is a stud or some ) I said I don't know, so he said to think about it and give him a call, Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 You didn't tell him the Grandpa part? :lmao: Damn, girl! You're too funny! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 lol Ariadne. I need a story like that every morning. How funny! You've paid your dues...or you're almost done paying your dues. Touche: I hope you are right. I have been paying them for a long long time. Well today is a new day. I'm actually up early and ready to go. That is something new. Normally, I hit snooze for 2 hours - today only a half hour. Of course I did go to bed at 10 o'clock. Have a great day everyone! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 well i started the day off positive and well. Then I called D because he didn't call me this weekend as he had promised. He told me about the great turnout at his party and I got so jealous. I told him it hurt my feelings that he invited all his friends EXCEPT me. I told him it was if he intentionally did not invite me. He said he was not going to have me and that girl shooting dirty looks at each other all day. I said, well you said it was no competition, but it looks like you chose her over me, don't you see that? He said, Yeah I guess I did. I got mad and hung up. Started crying and then wrote him a text message saying "I will not stand by to play sloppy second to no one. I am better than that." no response. What do I expect? He made his choice, didn't he? God that realization hurts so much. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Omg... He told me about the great turnout at his party and I got so jealous. I told him it hurt my feelings that he invited all his friends EXCEPT me. That guy couldn't suck any more... Good thing that you don't see yourself marrying to him or any of that kind of stuff. But he had this girl coming on the weekend, and you know poor desperate lady is driving from two hours away to come see him (for ten years and waiting) and after all she was staying at his house. So, that party would have sucked for you, with Ms fwb there, and Ms ex gf there, you'd have been a nerve rack the whole time. I don't think I'd want to go there. (Unless of course I was the girlfriend and be there as such, but the guy is a pain for that) And on the Labor Day weekend is common that people do parties like that. (No wonder he told you not to talk on the weekend). But she is going to leave now, and you know she doesn't mean anything romantic for him, other that he must care for her since he knows her for such a long time. I'm surprised your girl friend didn't tell you anything... Well, what can I tell you... take it easy... I know... hugs, Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 my friend was with me on Sunday. She didn't go to his party. She and I went out of town. She is actually kind of aggravated that he didn't invite her either. They are supposed to be best friends after all... Yeah so that stupid girl is gone, but I still can't get over that he picked her company over mine. I realize many of the people there were her friends, but it would have at least been nice to have been invited. I should have been allowed to make the decision on whether I could handle being there or not. Am I just being a big baby over this? Because I didn't get invited to a party, I feel slighted. Seems kind of high school, doesn't it? Still, it hurts. His friends all saw him with her. That is a bruise to my ego. I should have been the one he was with. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hey, She is actually kind of aggravated that he didn't invite her either. They are supposed to be best friends after all... Ok, that is really, really, messed up that he "didn't invite" her, omg. She is at his house all the time and all. I should have been allowed to make the decision on whether I could handle being there or not. I couldn't agree with you more on that one. Kudos! Am I just being a big baby over this? No, I'd be really upset about that too. His friends all saw him with her. That is a bruise to my ego. Ack, I thought of that. And where is Mollyanna? That girl you were seeing? Is she not even invited? Hmm... I should have been the one he was with. Yeah, if you were his girlfriend, but he doesn't want that Totally sucks as... ------- Sigh, and on a different note. The grandpa called! Ack, what do I do now? I'm stuck. He wanted to meet me this "afternoon" even, because I told him I had my first piano class tonight. So I told him no because I have the therapist today (had to tell him that too). And he says that I'm a very interesting person....and that I like rollerskating, and he likes that, and that I like piano, and he likes that, and that I'm educated... sigh there we go with the "interests" again. So I told him I could see him tomorrow evening, but maybe the fwb is going to try and see me tonight or tomorrow since he's been calling now, and I'm kind of hot for him... Arghakasjfdlk ah well, at least I can't complain I don't have men... even if it is grandpa. And he sounds mature and knowlegeable and that kind of stuff. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 lol i can't believe you gave him the right phone #! Well, age or not, do you think he is hot? I've seen a couple guys around that are way too old for me, and I still wouldn't mind spending time with them. But you might want to stop calling him Grandpa... that might ruin it for ya! Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 OMG! You two just made me spit my salad out! I think Molly's right Ari, you gotta stop calling him G'pa if you're going out with him:laugh: I'm kind of surprised you agreed to go out with him too though. Maybe you can ask him if he has a son? And be careful. What if he's some pervert or something? As for you, Molly you need to DITCH, D. He did what he did because he knew he could get away with it and you'll be right back with him anyway. How about showing him this time that he can't treat you that way because you WON'T tolerate it. But words aren't going to do it...back it up with ACTION this time. Kick this bad boy to the curb with the other trash. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hey, lol i can't believe you gave him the right phone #! I told you I don't bs around. Well, age or not, do you think he is hot? I've seen a couple guys around that are way too old for me Yeahhh... maybe he is my soulmate that Touche was talking about Btw: I should have been allowed to make the decision on whether I could handle being there or not. I think he made the decision that "he" couldn't handle "you" being there, if that makes any sense... Sigh... later you, Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hi, I think Molly's right Ari, you gotta stop calling him G'pa if you're going out with him:laugh: Ahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm kind of surprised you agreed to go out with him too though. Well, I don't mind to talking to people. So I'll just go talk to him. Maybe you can ask him if he has a son? Yeah, he has a 23 year old son that lives in Panama. I think he likes latin girls, but he is American. And be careful. What if he's some pervert or something? Yeah, but how can I know that? Maybe he is a serial killer or some. Who knows, I met him in the park after all... Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Well, meet him out in public and don't get in a car with him, ok? Sheesh, I sound like your mother! I doubt he's your soulmate but maybe you'll meet your soulmate while you're out with him. He'll think you're just out with your grandpa! Hey, don't laugh. Everything happens for a reason you know. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hey, Well, meet him out in public and don't get in a car with him, ok? Sheesh, I sound like your mother! No, but thanks. I'm going to meet him in the park where I parked my car yesterday (?) And then he said to walk around the lake (the cheap granpa). I doubt he's your soulmate but maybe you'll meet your soulmate while you're out with him. Pheeeewwwww..... What a relief! He'll think you're just out with your grandpa! Hey, don't laugh. Everything happens for a reason you know. Yeah, maybe, and now he makes comments like "for an old man" and that. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 The cheap grandpa!!! This is too funny! You've GOT to tell us how it goes with that. Sheesh, he won't even spring for coffee? That's pretty lame. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hey, Sheesh, he won't even spring for coffee? That's pretty lame. Well, maybe he'll bring some bread to feed the ducks in the lake and I can eat some from the bread. Since I'm poor and all, I can't be picky. Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 lol ok, now i just spit out my coffee thinking about ariadne fighting the ducks for the bread. Yeah Touche - today I do feel like he is trash. I am ANGRY. You are exactly right - he does believe he can get away with it. He has gotten away with everything else. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 i need to do something ceremonial to break my link to D. I am on way over to our friend's house to go running. I am taking all of D's stuff and dropped it off to her. I have deleted all his pictures from my camera and from my computer. He is deleted from my phone except for the last text message I sent him. I want to remember that one, because I AM too good for this ****. What else can I do? I am tempted to change my phone #. I need to PURGE him out of my life. What can I do??? I need more! please advise anything you can think of to get him the heck out of my system. Tomorrow I am buying new sheets and blankets and pillows and rearranging my bedroom. That's not enough. What else? Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 I deleted all of the emails from the Denver guy and it didn't help!!! Good luck, Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 HA!!!! Man, you guys are a riot..yup, I can picture Aria in the park fighting the ducks for the bread too! That's pitiful that he won't even spring for proper meal out or something...sheesh. Wish you could take a picture of him so we can all see him! Anyway, Molly good for you! You're doing all the right things. Gosh, you're just WAY too smart to put up with that kind of crap. I always say what my mother always drummed into MY own head: Are you a goddess or a doormat? You WERE a doormat but NO MORE! Screw him! I love your idea of re-doing your bedroom. That's great. It's a very good start. And don't text him anymore. And if he texts you, IGNORE HIM! Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hi guys, I ditched the therapist. And I ditched the piano. The therapist: Three days she lasted, just like the rest. I told her that I was going to see her to help me get motivated to get a job, but I don't work that way. And the proof is that I didn't do any of the homework she was giving me... She agreed. And that I'm very introspective and I really know myself well. So I don't need more analyzing for that. She commented that I was a very happy person, and completely energetic and vibrant and full of emotion. That she didn't expect that when she met me. So that was nice. The piano: I want to play Mozart but I'm playing Jingle Bells. And to go from Jingle Bells to Mozart I'm going to have to spend years and years and hours and hours of piano practice. I like the piano, but I don't like it "that" much. And to top things off, the moment you stop practicing you forget everything. I guess I'm left with the rollerskating, but hey, at least I've been doing that since I'm six years old so I know "that" I like. So if I meet a guy now, what do you do? Nothing, I just rollerskate sometimes, if it's not raining and all... Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 6, 2006 Author Share Posted September 6, 2006 Ariadne: I have never stayed with a therapist more than 3 times either. What is wrong with us? maybe we need male therapists. Guys, we attach ourselves to and never want to let go of. your piano career lasted longer than my guitar. I only learned one song - Amazing Grace. It had only 3 chords. The scabs on my fingers caused by the strings - they lasted longer than I remembered those chords. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mollyanna Posted September 6, 2006 Author Share Posted September 6, 2006 I want running tonight with the friend. On the way there I called D and went over and took him his clothes he left at my house. We tried to have idle chit-chat. But I was sad and he knew it. Eventually I got up and left and practically sprinted to my car. He said "What, no hug?" And I sat there and thought well this might be the last one, so I got out and he picked me clear up off the ground and squeezed me so tight and wouldn't let go. And i started crying a little. And he said he was sorry that he had hurt my feelings. Then I let it all out - "You do all these things just because you know you can get away with them, because I am so forgiving - I always come back." and he said "that is why I feel so sad, because you are just the type of girl that guys like to do that too and I know you are going to get hurt badly one day". He said "That's why I think we should stop sleeping together and just be friends. I can't stand seeing you hurt and it makes me feel bad about myself when I hurt you." I started to cry again so I said I was leaving and he leaned in and KISSED me. What the hell?? I can't believe it, but I did not kiss him back this time. I did not move my lips and after a second I moved away and said "Please, don't do that". And i got back in the car. He went straight to the garage and shut the door before I was even out of the driveway. I've never seen him move so fast. I don't know what that was about? Why would he act weird? So after my run, I called him. He wouldn't talk to me. He said "I am going to bed in 20 minutes and I do not want to be in a bad mood when I go to sleep. When you left here earlier, it put me in a really bad mood, M (his roommate) even says I am very grumpy." I said well, gee thanks a lot. He said he didn't know why that was but can we please talk tomorrow because right now all I am going to be doing is trying to get off the phone. You don't want to talk to me now. I angrily retorted, "Of course this has to be about what you want, what about what I want? I have sat here for 2 days waiting to talk to you, but fine you know I will cave. I will go to bed in a bad mood too tonight and we will be even!" And I hung up on him. Why must we prolong this agony? All I wanted was closure tonight, but no he can't talk to me. Of course not. Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 Hey again, I have never stayed with a therapist more than 3 times either. What is wrong with us? Therapy is stupid. I only learned one song - Amazing Grace. It had only 3 chords. The scabs on my fingers Hahahahah He picked me clear up off the ground and squeezed me so tight and wouldn't let go... He said I think we should stop sleeping together... he leaned in and KISSED me. WTH?! I really don't get that guy. What is he doing to you?!?! Dunno... I think he likes you a lot, but doesn't think you guys getting married is a good idea, that's as much as I get. (But you don't think it'd be a good idea either so at least that). Why must we prolong this agony? All I wanted was closure tonight, but no he can't talk to me. Of course not. Well, most likely you'll talk again and continue with the sweet delight and agony thing. Did you get rid of his things? Ariadne Link to post Share on other sites
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