ash8752 Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 Well, how do others feel about this? As you may know...i am a bit insecure, but working on it. My reaction to this alone already says i am making an effort to be better at this but to the point: My bf of 15 months and i were supposed to go away the 25-27 of August. Well, we really shouldnt spend the money, my cousins wedding shower is that Sunday and I am having a heart procedure done the week before (this week), its called ablation. Anyway, i dont think we are going to end up doing anything. So my bf asked me if I would like to go to New York with him to visit his old high school friends. We live in Mass.) He has one friend in mind but there may be ex's of his and stuff up there too, who knows. Anyways, Are people out there in relationships ok with there SO going away like that alone? Does it cause uncomfortability? HE will probably go out drinking with them and do the stuff guys do. . . Link to post Share on other sites
Author ash8752 Posted August 14, 2006 Author Share Posted August 14, 2006 Oh yeah, i dont think i should go due to all the reasons i stated before, but especially my cousins wedding shower. Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 Let him go. There's no upside in giving him grief over it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ash8752 Posted August 14, 2006 Author Share Posted August 14, 2006 That is certainly true! Link to post Share on other sites
DarkMessenger Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 Voice your fears with him... Don't go into a full argument, just sit down and talk about it... It's not like he's going away ALL the time... If he was going there 1 or 2 times a month then I'd see it as an issue... but I see no trouble in letting him go. Link to post Share on other sites
john2776 Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 In this situation, let him go. He has already invited you, and due to the reasons you have given you can't go. But they are your reasons and should not stop him from doing his thing. Yes I would also miss my partner if they went away and maybe even get a little bit jealous of their fun without me. But thats life. You have to give people their freedom. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ash8752 Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 You guys are right. It just does make me a bit jealous and insecure maybe but not as bad as i would have been a couple months ago. He hasnt seen his old friends in a few years so it should be ok...Any women have an opinion on this matter? Link to post Share on other sites
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