jy02467 Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 about a month and a half ago, my ex gf of 9 months had broken up with me and we havnt talked since then on bad terms because about a week after we broke up i gave her a letter saying "stop acting like a little kid and grow the f**k up". the reason why she broke up with me is that i would get mad and upset wayy to much at her and it drove her away. I never drank with her and never wanted to have fun like take her out or even go to the movies. we would always just sit at each others houses or just walk around the mall and i wouldnt buy her anything cuz i was selfish. From my point of view and some of my friends views was that i was acting like a little kid and basically looked upon as a little kid physically. Ever since that day i havnt talked to my ex and to some of my friends and i started working on how i can imporve myself but didnt expect i would take it so far. I now have more of a built body, looks a lot tougher, started to hang out with the girls that every guy wants to date (even tho they are more attractive than my ex) started to have fun more, have more money, have a nice car, dresses a lot nicer and have a greater attitude on many things. (basically i changed like the guy in the movie just friends). I never intended on changing for the better by this much and it feels like i got a second chance to start life all over again. but the problem is. is that i still love her. I changed because i was unhappy with myself and wanted to move on. I know im a different person now who is stronger and better than before but how do i let her know that because i havnt talked to her since our breakup. I want her to know that i still care about her and will always be there for her but i dont know how to let her know that because im affraid that ive come too far to contact her and crash down into a little kid again because after all the things i have, I want to be with her and only her. I would give everything i have just to be with her. Can someone please tell me how i should contact her? Can anything that has happen to me bring her back? What should i do? ladies please help me Link to post Share on other sites
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