Guest Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Hello, I have been with my current boyfriend for nearly a year and we are living together. I have an ex boyfriend who I was with for 3 years but since our split, we have no contact with eachother (for the best). On the otherhand my current boyfriend still has contact from his ex now and again. It drives me crazy everytime she calls, texts, and he never ignores thembecause ''thats just mean'' He says he has no intention of getting back with her etc and cares about me the most. Why wont he just ignore her texts then?! I hate feeling like this, I've never been jealous or felt like this before, I feel like a horrible mean person. Should I be ok with them talking and having contact? Link to post Share on other sites
cruising Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 NOPE! i dont think you should be friends with an ex. it's just not a good idea. trust me!!! i know from experience. once you've been more than friends with someone, you cant go back to being "just friends". period. Link to post Share on other sites
xxrubyredxx Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 NOPE! i dont think you should be friends with an ex. it's just not a good idea. trust me!!! i know from experience. once you've been more than friends with someone, you cant go back to being "just friends". period. I think that it is possible for exes to be friends, if the relationship has been over for a long time, say around 5 to 10 years. Those people who have just came out of a fresh breakup, will find it hard to resort to being 'just friends', for there will still be feelings. Back to the original post. NO!! I wouldn't put up with him having contact with his ex. It's lack of respect for you when he does this and if he cared about you as much as he says he does, then he'd respect your wishes and have no contact with her. Link to post Share on other sites
All4You Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 im having this same problem now. my bfrend not only gets texts and calls frm his ex but he picks her up and takes her all over the place if she asks him 2 he says they are more like brother and sister now...she has lots of family problems and she moves frm house to house. has no money 2 move around freely so he's helping her out etc. the thing is tho he doesnt answer the fone wen im around and i think thts shady but he says its bcuz he respects me y he doesnt answer around me....he moves away from me if he answers her he says he just helps her out of pity....and they're just friends so y cant he help his friend out wen she is in need. The other day he called me but i cuddnt talk so i told him id call bak wen i was done. wen i did..i dnt knw if he intentionally pressed the call button on his fone but i cud hear his conversation. It ws the ex in the back ground crying tht ever since he found this new girl shes now on the back burner and she cant find him wen she needs him bcuz he's with his woman and tht all he can tell her is tht he's on VIP now and all sorts of stuff. i didnt knw wat 2 make of the fone call. im just reli confused int his relationship...and it hurts even more bcuz i love him and he says he loves me....and he doesnt want me in his life he NEEDS me Link to post Share on other sites
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