Author a4a Posted August 17, 2006 Author Share Posted August 17, 2006 Man Ihate the lying and screwing with money crap. My ex was like that. Oh honey I paid the rent don't worry about. Sorry not the same. $40,000 that's a lot of debt. a4a lets ditch the guys and start another hot lesbian thread. The lesbian soap makers commune thread? Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 The lesbian soap makers commune thread? Um... if LS gets a new member about that time named "stoopid_gurl" it's not me. Really, it's not... Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted August 17, 2006 Author Share Posted August 17, 2006 Um... if LS gets a new member about that time named "stoopid_gurl" it's not me. Really, it's not... are you working up a "lather" over the new thread? Link to post Share on other sites
stoopid_guy Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 are you working up a "lather" over the new thread? My imagination's reeling. Link to post Share on other sites
ritamae Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 Emailing him what you would like him to do to you. Perhaps he will be more likely to respond with similar fantasies if it is not face to face intitially. Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Why are guys so indecisive and procrastonate all the time. My BF is like this as well. It's drives me mad. When you figure this one out Hotgurl let me know as well!! Maybe you could make this one into a post and get some comments. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted August 20, 2006 Author Share Posted August 20, 2006 Emailing him what you would like him to do to you. Perhaps he will be more likely to respond with similar fantasies if it is not face to face intitially. :lmao: ok another poster commenting only on the sex thing..... HELLO? Enjoying MY DAY off....... fighting with him again. Of course it is just me trying to make points and come to solutions while he just sits there. Should I email him that I am fantasing about stabbing him in the head with a fork??? weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Ugh... F*ck the husband! F*ck the boyfriend! I am not surprised he doesn't want you! Look at you! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Ugh... F*ck the husband! F*ck the boyfriend! RP...did your hubbie take that avatar pic while he was doing you on the floor? Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 RP...did your hubbie take that avatar pic while he was doing you on the floor? Huh? Why? I took it with my web camera actually and cut a picture out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 RP...did your hubbie take that avatar pic while he was doing you on the floor? I thought maybe she was pointing to where she wanted him to shoot the wad? "Do it in my eye...... " Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 I thought maybe she was pointing to where she wanted him to shoot the wad? "Do it in my eye...... " I am actually pointing at my ear! "Here baby, stick it in!" "I can't, it's too small!" "It's small, but I love ya anyway" "Huh? I meant your ear is too small!" "Ah... oh... right..." Neah, his dick is far from being small! Link to post Share on other sites
mental_traveller Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Don't have sex with him for a week or two. Fiddle with the computer/internet connection so it doesn't work for a week (stops him surfing for porn). Don't let him in the shower alone After 7 days of frustration, he'll be dying to jump your bones! Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Don't have sex with him for a week or two. Fiddle with the computer/internet connection so it doesn't work for a week (stops him surfing for porn). Don't let him in the shower alone After 7 days of frustration, he'll be dying to jump your bones!Yeah, (un)fortunately horniness is a matter of inner testosterone fluctuation and natural libido. But if he isn't horny, I don't think he is masturbating. I think he just isn't always so horny. Next month the roles might be reverse or he just has a little lower libido than yours. I mean, you're a nympho, right? You want sex every day! Plus you gotta lose 100 lbs and shave that moustache already, a4a! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Plus you gotta lose 100 lbs and shave that moustache already, a4a! I'd say more like 150 lbs Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 pudding... I mean chocolate sauce with whipped cream can cover up a whole lot of territory.... the cherry might be a good distraction too! Link to post Share on other sites
confusedincal Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 Wow, it's as if I wrote this post myself! I fell your pain!! What is with men?! No matter what I do my boyfriend of almost 2 years never seems interested. I've tried going down on him so many times and as soon as I stop he just goes about what he was doing before.... leaving me there to wonder "what the F#$@ ?!"..... Do you have the same kind of experience?? He says he is just respecting me.... ha.... yes that's what I want!! Maybe a guy who comes home and just does me where ever he finds me.... now that would be nice. Hey my ex did it allllll the time, is it too much to ask from him too?! Of course I could never tell him that my ex did that all the time or I'd get cut off.... god forbid a woman tell a man what she likes hey! Anyways I totally feel your pain. Boring sex sucks.... especially when you are forced to initiate the boring sex!! Hope things get better for you! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 I think this could be part of it and fear of me rejecting him. He is full of pride. So should I cut him off and just tease the hell outta him? YOur husband does not have the problem you do dear. You sound like you got a good well mannered man and because he does cook and makes love to you and then respects you. He has a problem causes he doesn't act like a monkey everyday. Oh I hope I don't see you getting frustrated in the future cause you can't train your man to be horny eveyday. YOu have a good man if you want a perfect man you got one. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 15, 2006 Share Posted September 15, 2006 I am actually pointing at my ear! "Here baby, stick it in!" "I can't, it's too small!" "It's small, but I love ya anyway" "Huh? I meant your ear is too small!" "Ah... oh... right..." Neah, his dick is far from being small! You must have heard that one coming. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 ok.... well i have 2 things.... first) maybe he is nervous of doing anything with you still... i'm a man... and i get nerous doing anything sometimes you never know how it's going to end up... second) you said that you lie with him and he gets a hard one... take and just do it and don't even ask him... do it as much as you want he'll get an idea after a few days of that Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 first) maybe he is nervous of doing anything with you still... i'm a man... and i get nerous doing anything sometimes you never know how it's going to end up... WTF? normally it ends up with 2 people satisfied and maybe having a smoke after....... Or do you mean like a monkey will bust into the room and cause havoc or what? How else does it end up? anywho the problem has been solved. And other guest I have trained him well..... tonight he will service me in a manner in which I desire and bake a cake for me. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 "anywho the problem has been solved. " WAIT !!! After spending half the morning reading this thread thats all your going to say ??? How has the problem been solved ??? I'm truly curious ! . Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 Another discussion about it but with a time frame selected by him to straighten the hell up. So far so good, hell he even seems quite happier with his regained attitude. Like I told him - Your choice, all in your hands, you decide and act on it either way. He even ordered "marriage books" and is reading a chapter a night. He tends to think that others think like him or have the same desires as him. Did not get that what I want is different than what he wants. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted September 28, 2006 Share Posted September 28, 2006 thanks for sharing and good luck ! it sounds like a start ! I gave a quasi ultimatum, he went out of town and came back with a whole new attitude of appreciation and committment. NOW, I just have to see if it lasts ! Thats the TRUE test ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author a4a Posted September 28, 2006 Author Share Posted September 28, 2006 thanks for sharing and good luck ! it sounds like a start ! I gave a quasi ultimatum, he went out of town and came back with a whole new attitude of appreciation and committment. NOW, I just have to see if it lasts ! Thats the TRUE test ! Word. But their choice. I quit worrying about why he was doing what he did and quit allowing the excuses. Basically I don't give a shyte, either do it or I am outta here. Your choice buckwheat. So far I have about 3 weeks of good behavior. He is rewarded appropriatley for his good behavior. Link to post Share on other sites
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