All I want is my wife Back!! (and my son)

[chadnickole]

2 months ago she moved out of our house, a week before that we had talked about her wanting to leave but I thought we worked threw it. She was talking to her Ex boyfriend for about 6 weeks before she left, but says that she just needed someone to talk to, and that he would listen. She swears they had/have nothing going on in fact he upset because she wants only a friend in him! (she says) Anyway when she moved out, it was the hardest hurt I've ever felt! I was out with some buddys and this girl started talking to me, I figured my wife left me why not talk to her. I seen her a few times but always talked about my Marriage with her, she listened and seemed to care, One night I followed all her friends bachk to her place, I went in and we started talking, I woke up the next morning and had panties in my pocket??? I would have remembered if we did anything, But she said we didn't and she didn't know how the panties were in my pocket, I told my wife i was talking to another girl (to try to get to her) and it worked, she was crying wanting me to take her back. I was still to upset and was reluctant, but knew that is what I wanted. The next day she found that girls number in my cellphone hidden under a friends name, she left the house and I told her i wanted to hold off on her moving back in, she said it was because of the girl ( it wasn't) I just wanted to make sure she was not just wanting me cause she thought some else wanted me. Well stupid me held onto those panties and my wife found them, So in Two weeks time she went from loving me and wanting us to work, to going to an attorny and talking about divorce, The bottom line is that after all these games we've played I realize just how much I love her, I want to spend the rest of my life with her!! She says she doesn't want it to work anymore and will not even try now!! I just want my wife and my son back, how can I make her see that no Woman could ever replace her, And I love her more than ever now!! She always felt I didn't love her enough, well I want her to feel how much I love her but she won't let me, I just don't know what to do please help, She hates talking to me now, I just want our marriage to last!!!!