Guest Posted August 16, 2006 Share Posted August 16, 2006 I've been dating this guy for a month, and he always only asks me out the day before or the day itself...whenever he feels like going out. It makes me feel like I'm just a back up plan if he's bored. Today he knew I wanted to hang out with him but he decided to go out with his friends instead, most of them female. At first I thought, well maybe he's an impulsive guy and doesn't make plans ahead. Then I thought that maybe he didn't know I really wanted to hang out with him and that he thought it would be more fun to go out with his other friends instead. But after thinking through our conversation I realized that he was just being selfish and ignoring the fact that I asked him to hang out. This makes me so mad. But if I tell him, he'll think I'm being needy cause we're not in a real relationship. I wish I could just decide he's not worthy of my time and stop seeing him but I really like him alot. I hate playing this game. How do I get him to make plans with me in advance instead of just calling me when he's bored?? I really hate pretending to be unavailable just to make him step up cuz I have to pretend I have plans when I don't and end up not being able to see him. Link to post Share on other sites
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