ex g/f situation

[ReleaseMe85]

My post is kind of long. So skip to the last two Paragraphs if you dont want to read it all.

 

I think im younger than most of the people on this forum, but I would still like some advice.

 

Here is my situation:

 

We met in High School and dated for most of my senior year. We broke up b/c I was going off to College. We wanted to remain friends and see what happened during breaks and things. (I wanted to stay with her, but didn't tell her) We still liked each other, but the situation proved to be to much for her and a lot of immature things were done and said by both of us. We ended up not talking for a year and half. During this year and a half we both had had other relationships, but no matter what I did I always thought about this girl.

 

At the end of this year and a half of "NC" (last summer; going into my JR yr her Freshman yr of college) I found out that she was working at the same club i was. This was going to be my third summer working at this club and she new I worked there. I think she did this b/c she wanted to see me again and see if she still had feelings for me. We ended up being teamed together and spent the next 8 weeks together. We pretty much reverted back to our old ways of joking around with each other and other people were noticing and telling me that she was flirting with me. At the time I had a g/f and wanted to see where my relationship was headed with her. I didnt do anything b/c of that, but a lot of old feelings were brought to the surface again. Last November I ended the relationship with the other girl. Since than I have been thinking of my HS g/f.

 

I havn't seen or talked to her since last summer. (Nearly a year ago) I saw her last week at a party and it hit me like a ton of bricks. We ended up talking, away from the party, by oursleves, for about 45 minutes. I had heard earlier in the summer that she had a b/f since last December, but she never brought him up or hinted to me that she had a b/f. The next day one of my buddies said me "I thought you and your ex were gonna start going at it, there was so much flirting and tension between you two" Since i saw her i havn't been able to think of anything, but her. I know i still have feelings for her and it seems like she still has them for me.

 

I guess what i'm askings is if I should tell her how i feel? She goes back to school in a couple days and the next time i see her might not be till Thanksgiving or X-mas break. She also has a b/f. So, should I wait and hope they break up? and than tell her? or tell her now? I'm 21 and a senior in college now and i feel like if i started dating her again than that would be it and I like that thought. If I don't tell her, I'm always going to be thinking about it and what could have happened.

 

I guess I just needed to vent a little bit, but any advise will help.

[bunny25k]

my advice is to never go for anymore who is taken. respect for other man involved. plenty of single women out there, but you still want her, i know. but lets say they do break up, she will need time to heal and it will not be a good start for a new relationship given the situation.

[ReleaseMe85]

thanks. thinking about it now, it probably would backfire on me. And even if she did brekup with him for me, it would be the wrong way to restart our relationship.