I think my ex is contacting me through a fake email address.....

[dr strangelove]

Ive been posting some personal ads for the last few months on free classifieds sites.

 

Ive recieved a few emails from a lady, she does not tell me much about herself and refuses to share a picture.. well she says that she does not have one that is presentable.

 

The more she talks the more it sounds like my ex.

 

As well.. she mentioned something about not being a SWF "single white female"

I never mentioned that I was "white" I am though. And I never mentioned looking for any specific gender.

 

If its not my ex, then its someone that knows me I think, but im begining to think its her.

 

I guess Ill keep the emails going and see how it unfolds.

[P1xie]

Is that kind of the norm on the dating sites to state SWF, SWM, etc.

 

Are you hoping it's her so looking for signs?

 

You are right you are going to have to wait it out.

[dr strangelove]

Hi Pixie,

 

yes it is normal to clarify wheter you are white or black or whatever. But because this is the personals section of free classifieds site it doesnt have a check box for your nationality.

 

I checked my ad it doesnt mention it.

 

Am I hoping it is her? Sure id like to hear from her. And she has done something like this before once, or called from a blocked number other zany things.

 

When she did this before it was on a regular dating site. I got a wink from someone and they had a picture. A first glance I thought the woman was attractive, then I thought ive seen this face before.

Then I realized it was her, with a different hairstyle and a bit chubbier.

 

The way her brain works based on past experience, she definitely wants to chat with me but doesnt like to admit to it. Its kind of a way to save face..

does that make sense?

[alphamale]

one more reason not to use internet dating...

[Pyro]

My ex tried contacting me through fake user names on IM. She even pretended to be my ex before her. Its a shame that some people have to be so immature. I wouldn't jump to conclusions just yet. Like you said, let it pan out some more. Keep us updated. I want to see if anyone is as immature as my ex.

[dr strangelove]

Hmm

 

Originally back when we broke up I never expected to hear from her again. Then she just started popping up on MSN. It was not untill I messaged her that she started talking, and then at one point she said well "I guess you needed to tell me this stuff"

 

Uhh.. no see you messaged me.

Another time when we broke up but got back together, she showed up at my store. Ive never mentioned on here that I own a store just in case. I like some privacy.

 

She walked right by the store, and I happened to walk outside just as she was doing so. That lead to talking.. then at one point she said something to a friend of mine about people trying to get back with etc etc..

 

She was trying to turn it all around to get me to make it look like it was all my idea.

 

I still think to this day, if I actually re-opened. She would show up. Since we broke up I closed, and only run the place by appointment so that throws that whole plan off.

 

Perhaps adding this bit of enough sheds a new light on things.

 

BTW riddler Heath ledger is susposed to play the joker in the new batman movie.

[Adunaphel]

If and when you are pretty sure it's her (and if in case it's really a different lady you'd be not interested in her),

you could write to her something like

"How are you doing, [ex's name]? Are you okay? Sorry for calling you out, but i'm beginning to get bored with the game. It's been nice for a while, though. But, you know, I'd rather know how you are doing and talk to you normally."

[Pyro]

Hmm

 

Originally back when we broke up I never expected to hear from her again. Then she just started popping up on MSN. It was not untill I messaged her that she started talking, and then at one point she said well "I guess you needed to tell me this stuff"

 

Uhh.. no see you messaged me.

Another time when we broke up but got back together, she showed up at my store. Ive never mentioned on here that I own a store just in case. I like some privacy.

 

She walked right by the store, and I happened to walk outside just as she was doing so. That lead to talking.. then at one point she said something to a friend of mine about people trying to get back with etc etc..

 

She was trying to turn it all around to get me to make it look like it was all my idea.

 

I still think to this day, if I actually re-opened. She would show up. Since we broke up I closed, and only run the place by appointment so that throws that whole plan off.

 

Perhaps adding this bit of enough sheds a new light on things.

 

BTW riddler Heath ledger is susposed to play the joker in the new batman movie.

 

Wow, she misses you. For her sake, I hope that its not your ex.

 

Heath has definitely got the face to play Joker, but he has some huge clown shoes to fill because Mr. Nicholson played a damn good Joker. I have dibs if they decide to bring the Riddler back.

[dr strangelove]

This mystery person emailed me again today. Which is wednesday. I guess that is about 5 days from when I sent her a few emails back.

 

First she claimed her name was Miss M, now its miss J. Im not repeating the full names here just in case. She also claims to not be caucasian. But doesnt say what her background is.

 

Im not sure wheter I intend to write back as for now, im kind of tired of internet females. Unfortunely im in a position where internet dating is one of the few choices I have.

 

I actually picked up someone on the street yesterday. I wont be doing that ever again.. after about a half hour of her annoying chatter I asked her to leave, I wasnt even going to attempt to get a shag.

 

So I dont see much point in replying back to this person, if its my ex or not my ex I dont see it going very far.. and I dont know what is real or complete fiction.

 

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In regards to batman. Theres alot of different actors that might play a good Joker or other characters. I wonder who they will get to play robin when the time comes. In comic there has been a series of different robins. One was even a female n the post apoclyptic dark knight saga. One ended up becoming a villian in the hush storyline.