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[Buttaflyy]

I find this amazing that when she is with you she is always in total control of her sex drive. Why don't you get her drunk and see if she responds the way she did with her ex.

 

I agree. I think you're being taken as a fool. Dump her. This is all unacceptible behavior. Now she may be pregnant? How much shame can you take from her? Will you be able to get past this? I think you'll began to resent her more and more. I think she's been giving you a story and not such a good one. It seems to me that if her friend "warned" her about the guy, it must have been because she had an interest in him. Unless her friend said "be careful of him, he's a rapist!" It really doesn't make since, her friend knew she was dating you (or engaged), why would she be telling her to beware of other guys? And this guy the friend was dating btw!

[penkitten]

if i were you i would break things off with her.

 

there are more fish in the sea.

fish that are loyal and wont cheat on your with their ex.

fish that will give it up to you and not wait for a chance with their ex.

fish that dont give it up to their friends boyfriends.

[norajane]

Thats simply it does bother me a great deal she slept with him. The virgin part was never a big deal to me. I was just mad she was making me wait. I would feel better if we slept together because at least when I see him I would know I have had sex and he was not the only guy she has slept with. I am hurt big time and some days want to say forget it and move on.

I can even understand the sleeping part if she was drunk but not the oral sex you have to at least be in to that some what. Ahhhh it pisses me off

 

Do you really think he is all smug about this. My girl friend say he just likes sex and is not all smug and bragging about it.

 

Oral, huh? Yep, you're not fighting to get away if you're giving or getting oral.

 

Sweets, this girl isn't worth your time, and certainly not worth your trust. You marry her and you'll faced with a lifetime of this kind of behavior. You can't trust this girl AT ALL.

 

Run, run, run far and fast.

[Guest]

Oral, huh? Yep, you're not fighting to get away if you're giving or getting oral.

 

Sweets, this girl isn't worth your time, and certainly not worth your trust. You marry her and you'll faced with a lifetime of this kind of behavior. You can't trust this girl AT ALL.

 

Run, run, run far and fast.

 

If she is pregnant we would be done, my friends say he would use the kid as a excuse to try and get her in bed. As for the sex she says it was because of the drug X not just the drinks. She told me she did the oral to get out of ****ing him a second time. I think he wanted to get her pregnant or he would of used a condom. She is my best friend and I do love her not sure I can trust her though. She does seem to hate the guy big time at leadt

[stillafool]

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quote=Guest;903304]If she is pregnant we would be done, my friends say he would use the kid as a excuse to try and get her in bed. As for the sex she says it was because of the drug X not just the drinks. She told me she did the oral to get out of ****ing him a second time. I think he wanted to get her pregnant or he would of used a condom. She is my best friend and I do love her not sure I can trust her though. She does seem to hate the guy big time at leadt

 

You may be her best friend but she certainly is not yours. Stop making excuses for her. Who ever heard of such. She gives a guy head so she doesn't have to f--k him again????? Come on! How long was she with him. Normally after the first f--k she should have been able to leave while he regains his energy. No what does she do - she gives him head. Also the guy was not trying to get her pregnant he just didn't care enough about her or himself to use a condom. He doesn't love her. Don't keep convincing yourself that she hates this guy. She is probably in love with him.

[insomnie]

It sounds like your girlfriend has a really twisted view of sex. She won't fool around with you, even though you are engaged, because she wants to make it special.... yet she goes to parties, gets drunk, takes ecstacy, and has sex with losers. Sounds almost like a madonna whore complex in reverse. Or something.

 

This is not how a loving relationship is supposed to work, but it sounds like both of you are too immature to realize this. I agree with everyone else. Break off the wedding.

 

 

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She is probably in love with him.

 

She probably is.

[Guest]

It sounds like your girlfriend has a really twisted view of sex. She won't fool around with you, even though you are engaged, because she wants to make it special.... yet she goes to parties, gets drunk, takes ecstacy, and has sex with losers. Sounds almost like a madonna whore complex in reverse. Or something.

 

This is not how a loving relationship is supposed to work, but it sounds like both of you are too immature to realize this. I agree with everyone else. Break off the wedding.

 

 

 

She is probably in love with him.

 

She probably is.

 

 

 

I am trying to work it out, the thing is we would have sex I think if I pushed it, I few times when she was wasted and we were fooling around she was agianst going futher but it seemed if I pushed she would have. So maybe this ass just was willing to push her.

 

She has not been near him since and hates him so I doubt I have to worry about him. I don't even know why he wanted to sleep with her he knows she is engaged and she has told him off many times so he knew she did not like him

[Guest]

She probably is.

 

 

 

 

 

She has not been near him since and hates him so I doubt I have to worry about him. I don't even know why he wanted to sleep with her he knows she is engaged and she has told him off many times so he knew she did not like him

 

He will get her again just watch. The fact she sucked him means she was in to it. Is she pregnant or not? If she is he will be around all the time so get the heck out.