Cecilia84 Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Hi everyone, Please tell me what I'm doing wrong, because I just can't get a date! I don't consider myself ugly, in fact both guys and girls have commented on my looks. I think I'm relatively smart (I work in a lab) and I can hold a conversation. But yesterday I asked a guy out for the second time (by this I mean it was the second time I had ever asked a guy out, and this guy was different to the first one!) and he didn't even reply! He is a physiotherapist and looks to be close to my age. I went to see him because I couldn't get an appointment at my regular physio. The moment I saw him I fell in love, and this only got worse once we got to chatting. Two weeks later I had to return for a check up and he kind of pretended he didn't remember me, then said "I thought I recognised that girl from somewhere, sorry!..come in, come in", blah blah..etc. The whole time we talked he held eye contact and when he was fixing up the bill out the front he seemed nervous, to the point that one of the receptionists asked him if he was alright. As I was leaving he gave me another killer smile and told me to "have fun". So, considering the privacy laws and stuff about inapproprate realtionships between practitioner and patient, I figured that even if he wanted to ask me out he probably couldn't. So I sat on it for a couple of days and came up with what I thought was a creative idea to ask him out. I typed a letter marked 'private and confidential' to him, in it saying that if he's not seeing anyone I would like to meet him for coffee etc. I put my number at the bottom to leave it in his court. He would have received it by now, and I can't believe I haven't heard anything! Of course, there is the possibility that he is with someone. But he could have replied couldn't he, even if by text message to say thanks but no thanks?! Maybe I'm just being stupid. What does everyone think? Link to post Share on other sites
Yoohoo Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 If a girl did this to me and I was interested, I'd reply, if I wasn't, I wouldn't reply...no "thanks but no thanks" or anything like that...but that's just me. You put the ball in his court...if he doesn't want to take it anywhere, he won't....you can't get hung up on every guy or you'll drive yourself nuts... Link to post Share on other sites
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