garnet Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 yes, I am absolutely saying that you should stay single and focus on yourself for now. Any increase in self esteem through your involvement with another person will only be false and short-lived. You must learn to make yourself happy first. Until you truly feel good about yourself (and know who you are) you will continue on a string of failed relationships. I can say this with certainty because I've been in your shoes before. It's feels terrible to feel lost within yourself, I know. And because you are is the reason why you're searching so hard for something within this other person. All of the answers are inside of you, now you just need to give yourself the space and time to find them. Link to post Share on other sites
SwayLady Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 So what you are saying is for me to stay single and trying to find out what I really enjoy and getting to know myself and not worry about a man in my life? It's exactly what I'm doing at the minute. We don't meed men to be happy you know Link to post Share on other sites
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