Rob Posted January 15, 2002 Share Posted January 15, 2002 Do girls know when we are "checking them out?" Even if all it is is subtle glances from across the room? Link to post Share on other sites
Ed Posted January 15, 2002 Share Posted January 15, 2002 If she saw you looking...she knows. Even if you were looking at someone else in here direction, she may still think you were checking her out and will be wondering if you will follow up on "the look". Do girls know when we are "checking them out?" Even if all it is is subtle glances from across the room? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 15, 2002 Share Posted January 15, 2002 Of course they do. They make it a point of dressing or otherwise presenting themselves in such a fashion to ensure they will be checked out. They absolutely love it, although some will say it's aggravating. So, with that answer, where do you go from here? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rob Posted January 15, 2002 Author Share Posted January 15, 2002 I don't know. I just don't know. Of course they do. They make it a point of dressing or otherwise presenting themselves in such a fashion to ensure they will be checked out. They absolutely love it, although some will say it's aggravating. So, with that answer, where do you go from here? Link to post Share on other sites
Lola Posted January 16, 2002 Share Posted January 16, 2002 Depends on the woman. Some women just go out to be noticed. Other's go out with friends to just have a good time. We all like to look our best and we all do enjoy being noticed. "Checked out" can have many meanings. If you are a creepy guy and you stare obviously, then it would probably make me sick. If you are a nice looking guy, with a respectable attitude and you check me out, I would definitely try to make eye contact. Usually the three second rule works. If a woman stares at you from across the room and makes eye contact for a few seconds, then looks away for a few, then looks back and smiles... it's on. Go introduce yourself. She will talk to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rob Posted January 16, 2002 Author Share Posted January 16, 2002 That's part of my problem! I always wuss out and look away first!!! Any suggestions? Depends on the woman. Some women just go out to be noticed. Other's go out with friends to just have a good time. We all like to look our best and we all do enjoy being noticed. "Checked out" can have many meanings. If you are a creepy guy and you stare obviously, then it would probably make me sick. If you are a nice looking guy, with a respectable attitude and you check me out, I would definitely try to make eye contact. Usually the three second rule works. If a woman stares at you from across the room and makes eye contact for a few seconds, then looks away for a few, then looks back and smiles... it's on. Go introduce yourself. She will talk to you! Link to post Share on other sites
Lilly Posted January 16, 2002 Share Posted January 16, 2002 Suggestions... think "I have nothing to lose, everything to gain", don't wuss out, don't look away first, smile with your eyes (corny I know, but it works). Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rob Posted January 16, 2002 Author Share Posted January 16, 2002 I'm sorry I don't understand? Please please please please please tell me what you mean by that!!!! Suggestions... think "I have nothing to lose, everything to gain", don't wuss out, don't look away first, smile with your eyes (corny I know, but it works). Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 16, 2002 Share Posted January 16, 2002 You seem obsessed with this. I read your original post and it's only a simple one-liner. What's going on in your life? What are you wanting to accomplish? What is happening that you aren't telling us? We can't help you if you don't give us all the information. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rob Posted January 16, 2002 Author Share Posted January 16, 2002 I don't know! I'm confused! I guess I'm just looking for an easy way out. I know I shouldn't. I'm sorry You seem obsessed with this. I read your original post and it's only a simple one-liner. What's going on in your life? What are you wanting to accomplish? What is happening that you aren't telling us? We can't help you if you don't give us all the information. Link to post Share on other sites
Lilly Posted January 16, 2002 Share Posted January 16, 2002 You sound kinda young... no easy way outs other than the more you do something the easier it gets, that's life. Take a deep breath, be brave, think I have nothing to lose, everything to gain and go for it. Sure you'll crash and burn a few times but who hasn't?. Rejection is a part of life. All I meant is... if you've gotten to the point of not wussing out, not looking away first, the girl has smiled (given you the green light... Lola's post, last paragraph) but you can't manage a smile back let alone walk over and introduce yourself then just keep glancing at her with a soft look in your eyes (ie smiling with your eyes), girls can often sense when a guy is interested but too shy to approach, if they are a bit more confident then perhaps they will approach you. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts