toonicegirl Posted August 20, 2006 Share Posted August 20, 2006 i got a strange message form my ex last night... i messaged him today cause i had no clue what was going on...to make a story short i found out that somebody logged in on some website (i dont know which one) and sent something to my ex with my name on it !!! ... first i thoght that my ex was joking, so i was like :stop joking, grow up... but he was like i can show you this, im not joking... he believes that it wasnt me, but he was like: i just thought that you heard that im single again (!?) and that's why you sent it to me... so he's single again...we stayed in a friendly touch for about last two months but we never saw eachother since the break up (4 months now)... now i feel like i cannot be his friend anymore, like i have to back off..i dont think he wants me back, but he thinks that i still have feelings for him (he joked about it few days ago)... i do have feelings for him but i've never said it or done anything to show it...he was the one that was breaking nc...reading my blogs and sending me messages on my cell Link to post Share on other sites
dr strangelove Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Sometimes when some one breaks up with you. Im assuimg he was the dumper and you were the dumper. The dumper changes their mind and wants you back but for whatever reason cannot come out and ask you. Instead they drop hints hoping you will ask them. Ive been in this situation before, so that is what I believe is going on here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author toonicegirl Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 yeah..he was the dumper but we had problems, grew apart and didnt really talk for 2 weeks before final break up, so when he said it's over i wasnt really surprised... break up wasnt nasty i dont think he wants me back but even though he thinks about it, i'll make him work for it.... i wont ask him for sure Link to post Share on other sites
SwayLady Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 yeah..he was the dumper but we had problems, grew apart and didnt really talk for 2 weeks before final break up, so when he said it's over i wasnt really surprised... break up wasnt nasty i dont think he wants me back but even though he thinks about it, i'll make him work for it.... i wont ask him for sure Hmm, I'm thinking the same as drstrangelove. If you want him back, then I'd advise not to make him work too hard. He may interpret it as your being 'disinterested' and then you will wonder why he disappeared and you will kick yourself There's nothing worse than mind games and head f**ks! Link to post Share on other sites
Author toonicegirl Posted August 22, 2006 Author Share Posted August 22, 2006 Hmm, I'm thinking the same as drstrangelove. If you want him back, then I'd advise not to make him work too hard. He may interpret it as your being 'disinterested' and then you will wonder why he disappeared and you will kick yourself There's nothing worse than mind games and head f**ks! im confused right now, but i also feel that im not in a rush... he's single, fine...im not gonna do anything right now... before we were exchanging messages like once or twice a week...usually i was waiting till he initiates this... but he seems so full of himself right now...he's not a bad guy but lately he started being a singer and has a lot of girls adoring him... i dont want to look like one of them Link to post Share on other sites
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