figgurinoutlife Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 I am currently doing NC with my ex of 2 years. I have been in NC for almost 1.5 mos. I started NC cause I was her "spare tire," "doormat," whatever you wanna call it, and although I have tried to be her friend while she runs back and forth with another guy so I snapped, turned into an ***hole and started NC, she wasn't happy about it, but it has been STRICT NC from my end. So now she has started calling from an anonymous number for the past week about 5 times a day, no messages, no voicemails, nothing - I know it's her cause only she would call me private. I have no clue what she wants and why she is calling so much and why she isn't calling from her normal number. Then today I got this weird text from 5000? that said "you/maybe somday?" I'm thinking I got the end of some weird text that may be from her too. I don't get why she is doing this and I'm trying to move on but am still in love with her and always wonder if we would of had a shot at a second chance. I have been ignoring all the calls. Does anyone know why she may be doing this? Should I keep ignoring them? If I do keep ignoring them will she get pissed off, try another way to get in touch or give up? Link to post Share on other sites
tikigods Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 shes upset because her doormat has moved on from her, so she is tring all she can to get your attention. I say keep igonoring her, she will eventually grow tired of it (lets hope) Link to post Share on other sites
Author figgurinoutlife Posted August 21, 2006 Author Share Posted August 21, 2006 Do you think she will try harder and actually call from her number or write a letter if she is really wanting to say something to me? If she is trying all she can to get my attention why doesn't she try another way? Link to post Share on other sites
Brittanyjean06 Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 One thing is you don't know for sure it is her.....but the chances of it being her are there, and who else would do it any way? I got calls from a restricted number always hanging up on me, people told me it probaly isn't anyone but a telemarkerter...yeah well telemarketers don't call at 3 in the morning:)... I finally have changed my number You should try that, because all this is doing is slowing down your healing process, she is probaly trying to get to you and make you think of her...and its working. You don't want that and if you got a text from 500 than thats not her, thats not even a number but some weird fax crap Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 You are absolutely doing the right thing by ignoring her calls, emails, texts etc. Why is she doing this? Who cares? She's history. Done. Finis. Kaput. Her reasoning makes no difference. Keep up the NC. Do NOT give in, under any circumstances. Link to post Share on other sites
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