Guest Posted August 21, 2006 Share Posted August 21, 2006 Dated a chick for 5-6 months after she moved from out-of-state. I was the only person she knew more or less outside of work, so i felt a bit overwhelmed at times since she was more into me in the beginning months. I really had a great time spending time with her and immersed her in my life and introduced her to the majority of my friends and family. I did work at the building in which she lived which made the circumstances of the relationship a bit trickier and she was also out-of-town a decent amount with work. Nonetheless, I cared for her and really liked her, but maybe left her not knowing that as much as I should. We both took the situation somewhat for granted and didn't communicate as well as we could have during our relationship. Then one night, she ran into her ex of 7+ years and then decided that I might not be "the one." So we basically took a week apart and took sometime to think about the situation. Then, we get back together for another month, everything seems like its back to normal, but I put more pressure on myself to make sure that she knew that I really cared for her. However, then out of the blue she decided that we should break-up. Now we haven't really spoken much since our splitsville, although we never really had a discussion about this all. We exchanged a phone call and an e-mail and I did decide to send her a nice bday card and a couple of CD's on her bday (thought i was taking the high-road, although maybe I should have obstained). Nonetheless, seems like she is sorta unwilling to have a conversation now (although I haven't spoken to her in 4 weeks now) and when she did call, she wanted to do it over the phone, although she called me when I wasn't around. I still have feelings for her and really want to see if something could work out at some point. This has been a month post-us....what to do to at least bring this back to what we were before we dated which is friends or maybe even trying to reconile this and see if it could work out again....Please help ladies, I appreciate it!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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