lovernotafighter Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 I thought of another really annoying one. When the **** hit the fan and MMs W found out I started asking if he would leave. He had lots of other issues at home and would bang on about them. When I asked, "But you can't leave..." he would say, "Not at the moment, no". Those exact words all the time. Actaully, this is good therapy because when I think of him saying that I just want to punch his lights out!!! oh this reminds me so much of my MM...I always never asked him to leave and he would go on and on about it and our future,I finally called him to the mat and he said he can't leave. so now I asked him to stop telling me he wants to leave and can't and just knock it off and enjoy our time cause it's short and I am not asking any more...but he can't control it and it drives me nuts!! just yesterday out of no where again he says " I want to be with you but it is so hard to make that choice because of my son" I told him no one is asking him to make that choice and he should enjoy life. Sheesh! today I got a e-mail saying "I'm gonna try to enjoy life" *sigh* Link to post Share on other sites
UnknowingOW Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I've heard that F1 pilots and Air Force pilots are among the most careful and slow drivers when they are on normal cars. Yes, F-16...lol And he said, there is a speed limit on the road, and I only flew within my limits too. oh, and he drives a sports car???? I responded...limits are meant to be broken....lol:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author BenThereDunThat Posted August 25, 2006 Author Share Posted August 25, 2006 LMAO - I would have been like rules? Really. You're worried about RULES right now??? Um, okay..... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 This is a great thread! There is only one thing that I don't like about my MM and that is the fact that I am in love with him and he is married. He is everything I would want in a partner. Wonderful Friend Intelligent Oh So Sexy Great Parent Hard Working MARRIED Handsome Sincere Funny Sharp Debonaire Caring Giving So much more........ Sadly, that one thing can be so big ......... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Great cook but would ask if I liked my meal before I had finished the first fork full. Had a big thing about noisy eating / drinking (fair enough, you might say, but objecting to crisps and apples because they are too noisy!) Stopped giving oral sex but continued to expect oral regularly (even to the point of telling me outright how long it had been since the last time!) Made derogoratory comments about his wife AND a former OW. If I answered the phone would say "you are in then" yes obviously!! Boasted about past extra marital conquests I once asked if I was the best lover he had ever had. His reply "no comment!" Criticised my driving Able to go from loving to cold and callous in a blink, and made me chase and apologise to him after a row The biggest joke? He left his wife for me. Now, 5 years on, we are in big trouble. The OW he was so nasty about is back in the picture. This thread has been very therapeutic. It comes to something when you start to sympathise with the wife you once hated!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 This is a great thread! There is only one thing that I don't like about my MM and that is the fact that I am in love with him and he is married. He is everything I would want in a partner. Concentrate harder. Link to post Share on other sites
Marielle Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 I hate when he sees me more often and I m thinking WOW...nice...but then I realize that it was just because later he has something to do and wont see me, so he builds up time with me so I don t complain after. Also when he goes (when leaving a voicemail) call me on my.....cell (hello!!!!! I do not have your home number"well I do, found it snoooping jeje) I hate when he s all romantic one day for no reason, saying how he cannot live without me, all cute and vulnerable, and next day cold and distant, singing songs on the side, anxious, etc... I hate that he wanted to meet my family, and of course I m not even aloud to be know by his father and brothers other that as a friend. I hate that I hate, lol I m fed up, but I love this forum and all the intelligent woman who post here (you know who you are : samiD (which I feel when she writes is me), rc, rC (RECORD), ZARATHUSTA, (sp?), newby, movinon, etc, etc etc Link to post Share on other sites
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