Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Hey well you might have seen me post comments on everyones threads and i have posted some threads of my own which talked about this guy who made a plan for mi and him to break up well he kept comming back and looking for me but not for something serious..... neways alot has happened this summer and one of my goals has been to find someone else i can be close to fall in love with like i did with my ex.....i went on dates i talked to other guys but....it just wasnt working and one day i went to hang out with this one guy and he tried to make a move on me and kiss me but.. i wasnt feeling it so i moved my head away.. haha yes i did it.. lol but neways that same day i decided i would find someone else that could help me forget about ma ex... well that same day i found this guy who i started talking to and did so the whoooole night he was telling me that he felt like he has known me for a while and in ma head i was like damn i feel like that too...well so we kept talking and talking and we got used to each other and he started calling me baby and so did i.....we met up and went to the movies and spent the whole day toguether. and we kissed and cuddled and acted like we went out.... it was fun i have to admit it... then this is where the problem starts... the next day i called him around 8 and i asked him where he was and he was driving from work and was telling me that he was tired cuz he worked all day but that he was going to call me when he got home....i waited and waited and waited till i fell asleep and i woke up crying cuz i had a bad dream.. i dreamed that we both were in a room and he was leaving and i asked him "what are we? are we a couple or what?" and he said "were nothing" and he left out the door leaving me crying....so i wake up half asleep and i decide to text him at 3 am in the morning haha... and on the text message i asked if he still liked me or was it that he was making me like him so he could mess around with me and that if it was that i could go to my ex for that and that i wasnt anyones toy or was even trying to be and that i thought he was perfect to make me forget about what my ex did to me and all dis stuff after i sent that i had a feeling i made a big mistake but i went back to sleep then the next day he text me back and he told me that i needed to chill because i was saying all that for over one night that he didnt call and it was because he fell asleep cuz he was so tired from working 13 hours str8......and i called later on at night and tryed to explain to him that it was just that i got scared and i though he was going to be like my ex...and he said that he understood but that he went through the same thing with his ex with and stressing out and he wasnt trying to go through that again and that with that atitude i was reminding him of his ex...and i tried to give him his space and tried talkin to him again and try to clear things out but i still feel like hes mad at me and i feel like he doesnt want to have nething with me no more.....hes a great guy and it surpising how he has been the only one to heal the cuts i had from ma ex..... i really like him and i know i can fall in love with him.......but i dont know what to do so we can get on the same track we were on b4... can you help me please?...i would really appreaciate it.. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted August 22, 2006 Share Posted August 22, 2006 Take a step back, take a deep breath, and do nothing! Let him come to you. You've said everything you need to say; now prove that you're not like his ex, and let him prove that he's not like you're ex. Wait for him to contact you. Then just relax and take things one day at a time without expecting or asking for guarantees. No one can give you a guarantee. If he doesn't contact you, then he's not in a place in his head where he can have the kind of relationship you want. Other men are. You will meet one of them. He's not the only guy in the world that you can or will connect with. Just relax. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Da_1_n_OnlyN3na Posted August 23, 2006 Author Share Posted August 23, 2006 yeah i ve though about that too because i did that with my ex and it worked but this guy since me and him did not have a big thing we didnt even go out we just acted like we did and we just met each other...dont you think it will be easy for him to forget about me?? all my friends say that if he was serious about what he said to me about his feelings that he was going to come back...but i dont know.. Link to post Share on other sites
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