blind_otter Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 A wise man knows how little he knows. I didn't realize that the spectrum and scope of what you experience is so vast, the older you get, the more vast it becomes. And you brain doesn't finish developing until you're in your mid-20s. I say this all the time, but it deserves some thought. We all make stupid mistakes in our teen years but hardly ever stop to consider why this is. Oh, maybe it's because the last part of your brain to mature governs rational thought and logical decision making. Hmmmm. Interesting. My older sisters both married their high school sweethearts. And they're all still married, 10+ years later. But they were smart enough to wait until they were finished with college before they got married. If their relationship could endure those difficulties and temptations, then they could be more sure that it would last. JMO, take it with a grain of salt. Link to post Share on other sites
kaizer0007 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 I personally think its too early. The chances of the marriage lasting when you start so early are very remote. The acid test comes when you have to deal with responsibilities after marriage -- like paying the bills, paying the mortgage, and living with the stresses of working etc. You should definetely be with the person you truly love, but, don't rush marriage.... I really don't believe in the necessity to experience other people and then make a decision, but, experiencing and seeing the ups and downs of life and knowing how you deal with them together is as important as anything else. I say wait.. Whats the rush? Link to post Share on other sites
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