inde4544 Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Hey everyone, I am new to this forum and new to heartbreak haha so here it goes. Me and my exgf were together for 2 years. We were really serious to the point where we were talking about getting engaged this kind of thing. She got really drunk one night and cheated on me. I could tell it killed her inside and I did not have the heart to walk away when I should have. This put a huge damper on our relationship and thigns went south. I made the mistake of not seeing this and walking away. She finally met someone else and walked away. This was an extremely hard time and I did say some angry remarks to her to the effect of your a piece of you know what things like that. I felt bad about this and apologized and decided I would not speak to her. Everytime I cut off contact with her she will call a few days later saying how she thinks about me everyday. She even said she has hopes sometimes for the future. This last time she really began to get my hopes up and then she began to say how she was confused and how she is still hanging out with this other guy and everything. This crushed me again and I lost it and told her to leave me alone and stop contacting me along with some other choice comments. The sad thing is I really do care about her. Is this because I am a fool. i never cared before this girl and did not put myself out there. Just wondering any advice on this situation and how can I cut ties and move on. THanks. Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 Either you two are going to give it another try or you're not. Her calling you all the time but being confused & still seeing some other guy is just playing games. Every time I cut off contact with her she will call a few days later saying how she thinks about me everyday. Whether she knows it or not, she is playing with you. Stringing you along. Trying to keep someone in reserve while she gets over her confusion. Look at it this way - she cheated on you & now she's seeing some other guy but calling her ex professing love & hope for a future. I wonder if he knows that? You have to consider that when she eventually does get over her confusion she might decide not to be with you after all. Link to post Share on other sites
thekhris Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 man exactly!..the only way to really win your ex back is to established first that your not her doormat.. Link to post Share on other sites
SwayLady Posted August 24, 2006 Share Posted August 24, 2006 man exactly!..the only way to really win your ex back is to established first that your not her doormat.. I'd agree. When you play doormat, you've a tendency to be walked all over and respect is lost for you. If you don't have someones respect, then you will never have their love either. Link to post Share on other sites
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