halovision Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 I've been going out with my girlfriend for two months now, it was really long distance (a few states away) at first, and now it is about 5 hours between us. I am going to Europe for three weeks tomorrow. How it started - we met at a wedding three years ago, and we stayed in contact since then off and on. I have liked her off and on for that whole time. She has always asked me to come out to her place to see her, and I hadn't done it. I booked a ticket and two weeks later learned she had a boyfriend. She had been off and on with him for two years. Then when I was out there I found out that she had broken up with him two weeks before I came out. So we started dating. My question is about being the rebound guy. Do these relationships ever work out? She has moved out here about five hours away to go to school, but her ex is talking about moving out too; he's still a few states away. Currently we're still going out but that seems to be conditional on whether he comes out or not. I asked her if she would ask him not to come out, and she said maybe. So I'm assuming that is a no. I want some tips on what to do. I sent her flowers for the first month-iversary, and tomorrow is the second month, I sent her flowers also. We spent the last week together every day, and it was great. I am thinking that it was a bit much for her though, so this three weeks away may give her time to think a bit. I wrote her a letter about the things I like about her, and asking her to ask her ex not to move. She still has a lot of feelings for her ex. Another thing is she's really bad at returning phone calls or messages. Maybe I should be less available? Or call her less? I dunno. I message her goodnight every night. I call her maybe two times a week. Maybe she is just an off and on girl? Should I be content with this? Link to post Share on other sites
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