LT1 Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 There is this one very good looking girl, she might even be the best looking girl in her school. I also know that she is single. I want to ask her on a date, but I am only an average looking guy. Do good looking girls have high expectations, and look only at good looking guys, or an average guy might have a chance? Link to post Share on other sites
SmoochieFace Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Short answer - no. Despite what many women say... they are just as 'visual' as men - especially younger women. People, in general, tend to go for those who are on about the same level of physical attractiveness. Which brings me to this... are you interested in her for her looks alone? Link to post Share on other sites
Yoohoo Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Average guys definitely have a chance...after all, its WAY more common to see a pretty girl with an average or below average guy, than it is the other way around.... If you only like her for her looks though.....well, it'll be tough because they know if that's all you are interested in...so you'll be at a disadvantage for that. Link to post Share on other sites
tearful_soul22 Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 There is more to beauty than meets the eye. People perceive physical appeal differently. No one is really perfect..what may be viewed as attractive to some may not be the case to others. It's true that popular attention are given to those with appealing traits. I think character is more important because in the long run beauty fades, afterall. So, i'd say..go out there and take your chances. There's no harm in trying. Take care and hope it all works out for you! Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Average guys definitely have a chance...after all, its WAY more common to see a pretty girl with an average or below average guy, than it is the other way around.... Really?? I say go for it! You may be more attractive than you think Link to post Share on other sites
Yoohoo Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Really?? I say go for it! You may be more attractive than you think At least here in the northern hemisphere...in the southern hemisphere though, everything is switched around...the way toilets flush, the seasons, and apparently what sexes settle for less Link to post Share on other sites
Pink Amulet Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Yeah, well all the guys are just so damn sexy down here they have to settle for us plain gals Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Go for it, at least you'll get an answer. which is better than never knowing. Plenty of attractive ladies paired with average lads, simply because the guy had the balls to do the deed. Link to post Share on other sites
Yamaha Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Do good looking girls have high expectations, and look only at good looking guys, or an average guy might have a chance? Most people want a person at the same level of attractiveness as themselves. Has she ever given you any reason to think she finds you interesting and attractive? If you pursue her and she is nice she might put you in her guy friends category if she likes your personality. These kind of women have lots of guy friends hoping she will change her mind about them. The choice is yours. You should just smile and talk to her and feel her out if you have a chance. You must be confident or there is no chance. Link to post Share on other sites
ZICKAR Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Ever heard about the prettiest girl that was never asked out because everyone thought she would turn them down ... Go ahead and ask her ... Who Knows ??? On a sidenote I think every love story starts at the physical level and then moves into deeper water Link to post Share on other sites
FataMorgana Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Yeah, well all the guys are just so damn sexy down here they have to settle for us plain gals :lmao: indeed so! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted August 27, 2006 Share Posted August 27, 2006 Ever heard about the prettiest girl that was never asked out because everyone thought she would turn them down ... Go ahead and ask her ... Who Knows ??? On a sidenote I think every love story starts at the physical level and then moves into deeper water I totally agree with this post. I disagree with posters who say : ~~Girls only want attractive men and not average ones. The average or below average men try much harder and make better boyfriends. The real hotties know they can change you out for another... just like a 5 dollar bill . If she finds a certain thing about your charming then you are in ! If she finds you have a great personality you have the green light. Why SHOULDN'T you go for what you want ? She may think you are the BOMB ! Maybe she is sick of real hottie type guys who she knows can easily treat her like leftovers and trade her up for a new model by the next day. I say GO for it ! Link to post Share on other sites
CollegeWTF Posted August 29, 2006 Share Posted August 29, 2006 Oddly, I am having the same problem, only with a twist. I like more average girls and I am above average in looks (Not to be an ass). I think it is better to be average, there are fewer negative stereotypes attached. From a college guys perspective, it does not matter if you are average, what matters is that you show people your true personality without fear of rejection. There are beautiful girls walking around campus hanging off the arms of some pretty dingy frat boys. They scored them because they are not afraid to be themselves. I'd swing for the fences on this one. If she declines, atleast you don't have to walk around fearing rejection, better to face it and get it over with Link to post Share on other sites
hentajus Posted September 2, 2006 Share Posted September 2, 2006 Yeah, well all the guys are just so damn sexy down here they have to settle for us plain gals WOW i'd be lucky if an average girl would speak 2 me my looks... hmm hmm hmm... no one ever talks much about my looks so i cant exactly say how much of that i have... but i'd say a tad below average.... it's just that i am SOOOOOOO shy especialy next to girls... and i have to agree with tearful soul22 i like a girl that everyone else says she dosent look good n stuff but she is actualy kind... but she is in SUCH a high opinion for her looks and everything always happens to me and for example 2 girls just sat next to me on some stairs and one of them is the one i like and they kept asking me questions like "have you ever kissed a girl" and stuff like that and i was realy mega shy especialy by the girl i like... and all my answers to the questions were like no,yes,no and stuff like that and i was just blushing and it was hard to talk she did do all kinds of girly tests if i like her on me like giving me her hand and if i held it for longer she would understand it's one of the signs i like her and stuff like that .... but as i said i am so shy i'l probably never go for it:( Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Do good looking girls have high expectations, and look only at good looking guys, or an average guy might have a chance? females choose the male they want to be with. and a good looking female can take the pick of the litter. Link to post Share on other sites
real_freakin_skater Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 judging the way thing are today everyone, women and men alike, looks for someone attractive to them and us average guys have to look for average girls but there are those times where we get luck and find a girl who looks for other things than looks so go for it she might be smarter than these conformative girls. Link to post Share on other sites
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