Bluenose Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Hi Everyone! My (shall I call her Ex) g/friend and I broke up about a week and a half ago...over a stupid argument. I will say that she is pregnant (i met her when see was only a few weeks into pregnancy..not my baby) and she has been rather hormonal to say the least...although I am quite head strong person and able to deal with that. After she broke up with me when she was in an angry rage...I did the NC thing. It seems to have worked as she started texting me yesterday asking when she could see my new born kittens...but nothing about me and her. I assume that after you split with someone you don't want to look foolish and say that you made a mistake? Today I asked her (by text) if she fancied going for a walk later to see if we can sort out our differences...she promptly replied with..."I dont think there's anything to sort out and i'm busy later sorry". I'm confused because her mum has told me she loves me and has missed me...yet this comes across like she's plain not interested. Can anyone shed some light on this for me? Be pleased to hear your thoughts. Blue Link to post Share on other sites
bluechocolate Posted August 25, 2006 Share Posted August 25, 2006 Can anyone shed some light on this for me? Seems at the moment there isn't much more light to shed on this than... ..."I dont think there's anything to sort out and i'm busy later sorry". I'm confused because her mum has told me she loves me and has missed me... Yes, well her mother is not your ex. You didn't mention how long you've been seeing each other, though I can guess that it is certainly less than 8 months. I don't mean this to say that pregnant women shouldn't have relationships, but are you absolutely sure you want to get involved with a pregnant woman anyway? You say you're a head strong person, well you'll certainly need that once the baby arrives! I would think that for the mother the stress of a new baby & a new relationship could be quite overbearing & something will have to give & you can bet it isn't going to be the baby. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bluenose Posted August 25, 2006 Author Share Posted August 25, 2006 Thank you for the response. Yeah I am sure this is someone I want to be with...and it's not through hurting from not being with her that makes me say that. I know you cannot make someone want to be with you...they gotta figure that one out for themselves. So what will be will be...just go back to NC and working on my self skills etc...i'm sure in time, everything will become clear. Thanks again Blue Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Definitely stay away while she's confused. She sounds hormonal. A friend of a friend of mine was in the same boat but it was his baby. They were engaged, in love, the whole 9 yards. But a woman told her something bad about him when she was in the hospital to deliver and the pregnant woman turned on her fiancé. She dumped him cold, promised he'd never see his child etc. He begged for her back for several months. He was out of his mind. Then one day he stopped. About a year and a half later, she asked for another chance. She said she'd do anything to get him back. He couldn't go back after the pain she caused him even though he really loved her. She had played hard ball big time and got burned. So take it from my friend, don't go begging. You sound like you have it figured out though. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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