dh Posted October 13, 1999 Share Posted October 13, 1999 Someone please help me! I went out on my first date in 3 years last weekend and I don't know what to think about the guy. I was never very good at this and I'm still not! Link to post Share on other sites
Totally Confused Posted October 14, 1999 Share Posted October 14, 1999 Guys are really very easy to figure out. After a first date, a guy that likes a girl will call 2 - 4 days after the first date, because he doesn't want to come off as desperate. If a guy waits more than that, maybe 5 - 7 days, then you have a man who's looking for a good time, doesn't take you serious and though he may think you're nice, doesn't want to have a serious relationship with you, whether you've had sex or not. If you didn't have sex with him on the first date, it doesn't mean he's going to fall in love with you and look at you as a definite girlfriend, it just means he might give you a couple of more dates to see if you'll give in eventually. Never ever sleep with a man beore the 5th date and wait even longer if you're smarter. 2 - 3 months. O:K. I'm not going to give you a long explanation, because it seems you need more guidance than an e-mail. Since you seem to be confused as to whether this guy likes you or not and you want answers, right down to why he didn't call after the first date, etc. You need to go to the bookstore and pick up a book that will be incredibly helpful to you. It will explain how guys are, what they're looking for, why they don't call. It's titled "What Men Want" by Bradley Gerstman, Christopher Pizzo and Rich Seldes. It's probably about $5 - $7.00 and it's real easy reading. It's a good starter kit for you and it will be easy for you to follow and understand. I think they also have a web page, so you might want to do a search on it and look it up. Just know one thing. If he likes you, he'll call you. If he's not that interested he won't. It's that plain and simple. Good Luck and happy reading. Link to post Share on other sites
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