trafficguy2000 Posted January 21, 2002 Share Posted January 21, 2002 Gads, what is it about you gals? I met a nice girl and we kinda did the whole hanging out thing within our group of friends and what not. Then we went out to the movies and to a coupe of concerts over the last two months with just the two of us. I asked her last Friday if she would like to go out on a "real" date and not just the whole "Hey lets hang out and watch TV". She says she just wants to be friends and thats it. I probably should have not been a caring thoughtful person toward her. What in the world do women really want? I am going crazy here. I guess its true, nice guys finish last. So now Im just going to be an idiot jerk to women cause that seems like the only thing that they want. God forbid you try to be respectful to a woman in the year 2002 cause it is going to get you nothing but grief. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted January 22, 2002 Share Posted January 22, 2002 You're wrong, very wrong, on all counts. When the right woman for you comes along and you are a jerk to her, she will be out of your life in no time. You can't be too nice, too available, to generous, to predictable, etc., expecially at the start. That's a turn off. But that doesn't mean you have to be a jerk. I don't think you would want a woman who required you be a butthole in order for her to go for you. That would be crazy. Unfortunately, there aren't many people who understand this whole challenge and not being too nice concept but it requires a delicate balance which has to be developed over time. Don't become a jerk because you won't win. Just get much better at being your real self and you'll attract the right woman into your life. Link to post Share on other sites
trafficguy2000 Posted January 22, 2002 Share Posted January 22, 2002 Yeah youre right but I guess I gotta figure out this challege thing that your talking about. I guess its like not always being there and making more time for doing stuff I want to do than always thing about what girls would want to do. You're wrong, very wrong, on all counts. When the right woman for you comes along and you are a jerk to her, she will be out of your life in no time. You can't be too nice, too available, to generous, to predictable, etc., expecially at the start. That's a turn off. But that doesn't mean you have to be a jerk. I don't think you would want a woman who required you be a butthole in order for her to go for you. That would be crazy. Unfortunately, there aren't many people who understand this whole challenge and not being too nice concept but it requires a delicate balance which has to be developed over time. Don't become a jerk because you won't win. Just get much better at being your real self and you'll attract the right woman into your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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