Mydish1 Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Anyway last weekend my ex tried to get me to come out to meet her on her bday...i couldnt make it as i told her. a couple days later i called her to set a day to catchup, it wasnt agreed upon but eventually i got a BS text from her why she couldnt meet up. i didnt bother responding. Then this weekend she had the balls to call me up, i was taking a nap and i didnt bother to look who was calling so i answered. it was her. Ok, i thought, I can be mature about this and forget that BS text she had sent last time. She said lets meet up before school starts blah blah blah...then i set the date, time, location and she agreed. Now this morning i receive a dumb text from her with these exact words : "Hey xxx im sorry, see you around school. i couldnt sleep and im not feeling fine, probably im catching a cold. have a nice day...". Dont know about her but I know i couldnt sleep that night. Better mannered than her BS text from last week, still flaked on me nonetheless. Load of crap how its so convenient for her to cancel on me with a text instead of having the balls to do it over the phone. maybe she wants to feel like she has the last laugh or revenge because i couldnt make it to her dumb bday crap. The way i see it these are my options: 1) no reply, ignore her 2) reply with "dont worry about it we can catchup some other time." 3) call her out on being a b*tch (how do i go about doing this?) I guess i could care less which option i choose, but i want her to know being a flakey b*tch comes with a price. It's just too easy to avoid confrontation with the silent treatment, the other person will never know where you stand. from now on if she ever tries to contact me again, she can forget about me answering. Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 #1, no question. She's under the delusion that by contacting you she'll get some kind of "closure." But in reality, there's no such thing. It's just her infantile way of wanting the last word. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mydish1 Posted August 30, 2006 Author Share Posted August 30, 2006 If she is then screw her. But i wouldnt mind staying on good terms, friend/acquantance for that matter. but so far it seems she doesnt have the maturity level of being friends...i dont know maybe im just wasting time with a hopeless cause. i got a text from her tonight, how should i react? im thinking of just texting her tomorrow that ill be busy this week and perhaps catchup some other time... "hey! how was school? im so exhausted i already got a lot of hw. Im feeling better now. this week i promise ill see you. when are you free?" Link to post Share on other sites
silentcharon Posted August 30, 2006 Share Posted August 30, 2006 Ignore her. If you really must, "Call me when you're not so flaky." will do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mydish1 Posted August 30, 2006 Author Share Posted August 30, 2006 i wrote back that ill be busy with school and work (which is true, she knows i go to work and school full time), and said i might be free during holidays and that i'd let her know. now the ball is in my court. Link to post Share on other sites
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