Guest Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Hi all. I am a first time poster here and am in need of some help. I will be as brief as possible. I was involved in a live in relationship for3 plus years, he abruptly moved out one day and in with another woman. After about four months of living with her he contacted me and told me he wanted to try to work things out...I allowed him back and it lasted for about a month. He then moved back in with her. Six weeks later he again contacted me and wanted to work on things once again. He moved back in with me, and things were going along fine or i thought they were, only to find out about 4 weeks ago he had once again started seeing this woman. I kicked him out and called her on the phone and told her she could have him. I could not do this back and forth thing anymore. I learned last week that he has asked her to marry him, adn my heart is breaking into a million pieces. I learned that these two have been seeing each other on and off for just over a year. He can't afford a place of his own and he has children that he bounces back and forth between homes. I know he is not a stable person but I love this guy to death. How do I get through this awful state in my life? Link to post Share on other sites
A MAN Posted August 29, 2006 Share Posted August 29, 2006 This guy is a dog. I do that you must have some issues with your own self-image to have put up with this. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 Be glad you escaped from such a wishy-washy guy, and rejoice that you are now free to meet someone who is a lot more stable and can make you feel special!!! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 haha, be glad. Really. I know it's hard. I was briefly, laughably engaged to a man from the UK last year. I kicked him out and he moved directly to shanghai to get engaged to another asian lady. but he emailed me yet again a few weeks ago to let me know "it didn't work out"....believe me, if he's that wishy washy he'll never find what he wants because he doesn't really KNOW. feel pity, but don't feel bad. Link to post Share on other sites
DeeBrod83 Posted August 31, 2006 Share Posted August 31, 2006 NEXT......! This guy's a dud. If she wants to deal with him, let her. Who needs to be put on an emotional roller coaster like that?! Besides, you guys are making life great for him! He's basically got two girlfriends and when he gets tired of one, he goes to the other. And apparently both take him back and take care of him. NOT COOL! Link to post Share on other sites
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