suzie sweet Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 I know ive done wrong i could have been lying here now with my throat cut..IM not a young gir with no sense im 36,but i did the stupidest thing ever tonight,I was suppose to be meeting a guy i met through a dating online site (highly popular) and i got cold feet and i cancelled this morning , we have been in touch for some time now emails, text etc but never met,I dont know why but i asked him down for a coffee instead of going out i just felt more safer (stupid as it sounds),Anyway he seems really nice and i do like him we are going out this week.. my question is will he think im forward and very loose for inviting him into my home with him been a stranger??? Link to post Share on other sites
rina_r Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 Inviting home? On the first date??? I wouldnt do it. Link to post Share on other sites
phyrespryte Posted August 26, 2006 Share Posted August 26, 2006 So you've already met with him or will that be happening this week? If it will be happening later, you could just greet him at the door and suggest that you walk somewhere else. Or even better contact him again and suggest another location. Pretend you've always wanted to go to that place, but never had anyone that would go with you. Don't let him into your home until you've gotten to know him in real life. Mainly for safety reasons, and you never know if you'll still like him in person. Plus if you can't stand him, it'll be harder to get rid of him if he's inside your place. If he thinks you're forward or loose...I don't know. I'm sure the thought will be in the back of his mind. I've always thought that about guys when they'd suggest meeting at the beach or their place for a first date. Link to post Share on other sites
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