someone at work...(another one)

[luvncurls]

I just want to throw it out there to see what you guys think. I have known someone at work for about a year. He is quite nice, flirty, we have good chemistry and have been out socially a few times. I do enjoy him and he enjoys me, but we do not seek each other out at work. He tells me of the people he is with and I tell him of those I am with.We had drinks a few weeks back and one thing led to another, we ended up making out in his car, he as going to spend the night, but couldn't because of parking and we ended having phone sex when he got home. He said that he would call me the next day, I told him not to worry because we didn't sleep together or anything. HE didn't call back. I called him a few weeks later and we spoke as if nothing and have spoken a few times since and we are back to the same old energy between us. He has previously mentioned to me that he does not date co-workers because he has had negative experiences and I have too, so I'm not eager to make a co-worker a FWB, because he is not really at a point in his life where he is looking for a serious relationship. I am open to one, but have been in too many messed up things to get into stupid fling. What do you guys think?

[Rikka]

I think this whole situation spells disaster. You are very smart in not making a co-worker into a FWB. I think it would be best to forget this whole thing, just move on and find someone else. He told you he isn't looking for something serious, so there is your answer on the relationship front.