whichwayisup Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Great! Oh, I also just wanted to say - (and not to freak you out for any future calls from your Dr) but if the news wasn't good, they'd call you in immediately and also tell you to make sure someone was with you. Anyway, have fun and just enjoy some laughter and drinks with your friends. Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Yousave, there are some really good threads on the sexuality site here on LS. You'd get a good laugh:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Yeah, maybe it's time you wandered out of this section and get addicted to the rest of the site. R is right, some good threads in the sex section, as well as watercooler, rant/confessions sections too. Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 :lmao: :laugh: TOO FUNNY:laugh: :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 22, 2006 Author Share Posted September 22, 2006 :lmao: :laugh: TOO FUNNY:laugh: :lmao: Have you guys started drinking early? Been reading them and laughing... Link to post Share on other sites
scaredinlove Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 while here it is. I met a great guy on a dating. He is married with two kids. I was in a realtionship at the time we met. We basically were looking for the same thing friends with benefits. It took another direction, We fell in love. And hard. We talked all the time. Any chance we got , even if it was for a quick I LOVE YOU. i broke off my relationship and we grew so close. We talked about having kids, and what our wedding would be like. And even when we argued there was so much passion. He always told me that i made him feel alive. The thing was he did the same for me. we talked about him leaving his wife and it always came back to the same thing the kids. He basically grew up in a fatherless upbringing and wanted the best for his kids. Even if it meant he would have to suffer. Well , 8 months passed. With everyday being the same. We love eachother like no other. The day finally came she overheard him talking to me in the bathroom we were arguing but it was basically over. I txted him after like i had normally did with and I LOVE YOU. She found it, confronted him and called me. Yelling, cursing. I'm sure you can imagine it. I got intouch with him the following day, he was nervous, scared. Didnt want to hurt the kids. She flipped out but not like we had both expected we thought she would throw him out the door no chances no questions. While she didnt wanted him to stay for the best interest of the kids. Try and work it out and talk more openly. He asked her several times if she wanted a divorce him to leave she said no , even though she knew he was staying for the kids and not her. She said she that it would have been more easier if it was only a sex thing, but knowing that we are in love hurts her more. She wanted him to call me and tell me he lied never loved me and doesnt , she wanted me to hurt as bad as she was. I had changed my number so he said he was happy he didnt have to do that since he just couldnt say those words to me. We ended it again for the best interest of his kids. We try and talk as much as we can. She watched his every move. We do talk just about everyday and our feeling havent changed for one another. He tells me he loves her because she is the mother of his kids but that he is in love with me and because he loves the kids and wants the best for them he has to put aside what he wants. I hurt so bad ...My insides are empty..I cant sleep.. Think or anything. Its been 3 weeks. We still say our feeling are the same , we still say i love you. He tells me he cant make promises but hope we can be together again. Am i going insane? I had surgery recently and he was worried about me. She knew it and made her comments or his feelings for me. How can things work with them two when his says i'm in his heart? And he loves me? I just wish my heart didnt hurt so bad....What is with me? And what is going to happen to us? It feels like its not over , i mean it does and is doesnt. Does that make any sense? HELP You saveme I know how you feel, I am in a similar situation.My MM kids are grown up but he is still afraid of leaving.I am moving on and you should do the same, keeping contact is worse.This week I haven't talk to him and it has been horrible but I want to get over fantasy land.I know later I will be glad that I did.His wife is breathing behind my neck I know he called my work and she calls my home and hang up, I guess to see I am with him.This is just too much for me. The best thing you have to do for yourself is to move on,it is painful as hell but that is the only solution.Good luck and be strong.I feel you pain. Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 Have you guys started drinking early? Been reading them and laughing... Not drinkin' yet!! I'm gonna pee myself if I laugh any harder & I'm gonna get fired!!! Yousave, stay on the forum & laugh!! It's good for ya!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 22, 2006 Author Share Posted September 22, 2006 Not drinkin' yet!! I'm gonna pee myself if I laugh any harder & I'm gonna get fired!!! Yousave, stay on the forum & laugh!! It's good for ya!!!! This is way to funny. Been LOL ....I needed this .... Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 This is way to funny. Been LOL ....I needed this .... LAUGHTER. JUST WHAT THE DOCTOR ORDERED!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 22, 2006 Author Share Posted September 22, 2006 LAUGHTER. JUST WHAT THE DOCTOR ORDERED!!! should have asked the doctor if along with rest, a toothbrush would help out in the healing process....Knew i forgot to ask something Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 should have asked the doctor if along with rest, a toothbrush would help out in the healing process....Knew i forgot to ask something OMG:lmao: :lmao: Make sure it's battery operated though!! (With xxsoft bristles) :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 22, 2006 Author Share Posted September 22, 2006 OMG:lmao: :lmao: Make sure it's battery operated though!! (With xxsoft bristles) :lmao: ah...battery operated....see this is why i come here..Knew i was doing something wrong Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 ah...battery operated....see this is why i come here..Knew i was doing something wrong There's more tips over in sexuality/practices ya know. Check it out. More laughs over there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 22, 2006 Author Share Posted September 22, 2006 There's more tips over in sexuality/practices ya know. Check it out. More laughs over there. I surely will. If i dont get a chance later...I hope you and everyone else has a great weekend Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 I surely will. If i dont get a chance later...I hope you and everyone else has a great weekend You too!! Thanks!! Hey, rest, drink, laugh & battery operated tooth brushes! HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!!! LOL Link to post Share on other sites
newtofl101 Posted September 22, 2006 Share Posted September 22, 2006 my advice is to cut your losses and walk away. affairs are just affairs and nothing ever good comes out of them. you say he tells you he loves you, he knows that is what you want to hear and its his way of keeping you around. face it he has the best of both worlds and you are just wasting time. sorry to be blunt but i have seen too many affairs and they are all the same.........good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 23, 2006 Author Share Posted September 23, 2006 my advice is to cut your losses and walk away. affairs are just affairs and nothing ever good comes out of them. you say he tells you he loves you, he knows that is what you want to hear and its his way of keeping you around. face it he has the best of both worlds and you are just wasting time. sorry to be blunt but i have seen too many affairs and they are all the same.........good luck I do believe what he says to me. Only because plenty of time has gone by since she ( the W) found out that i do believe our feelings could have had plenty of time to change. We both have admitted the closelessness we had , has gone away somebit but we also both know its because we havent be able to talk like we use to. Other than that the feelings of love and wanting to be together havent changed. I hoping yes this does all end well in my favor. But i'm hoping it does happen sooner then later. Link to post Share on other sites
CrushedOrgans Posted September 23, 2006 Share Posted September 23, 2006 Im not a monster and mental patient or an idiot. Like i have said in the beginning i was looking for FWB deal and so was he. We both were going to willingly cheat on the other people in our life. We didnt count on having this feeling or should i say falling in love with one another. what?! i don't know why more people don't keep saying this, and i've tried to be nice, but this "i'm so innocent, i wasn't looking for love, just to cheat on my so and love was a result" is pretty rancid. move on. every ow thinks her mm is the only mm who won't act like typical other mm. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 23, 2006 Author Share Posted September 23, 2006 what?! i don't know why more people don't keep saying this, and i've tried to be nice, but this "i'm so innocent, i wasn't looking for love, just to cheat on my so and love was a result" is pretty rancid. move on. every ow thinks her mm is the only mm who won't act like typical other mm. just saying that is what happened. Dont know what is going to happening. Could be nothing Could be something. I guess see what happens. But i have decided not to overanalyze so i dont drive myself insane. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 25, 2006 Author Share Posted September 25, 2006 Well, im feeling pretty good. I have a few scars from surgeries, so i just got back from making a tattoo appt. I have two - one on the back of my neck - very small. and the other on my lower/middle back- good size. I thought covering the scars with a tattoo would also help me remember what ive been going through ( health wise)... Hope everyone had a great weekend Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 Well, im feeling pretty good. I have a few scars from surgeries, so i just got back from making a tattoo appt. I have two - one on the back of my neck - very small. and the other on my lower/middle back- good size. I thought covering the scars with a tattoo would also help me remember what ive been going through ( health wise)... Hope everyone had a great weekend Good Mornin'! Glad you're doing well!! Talking about tattoos, I have 8. All pretty much hidden though because of work. What will you be getting? Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 25, 2006 Author Share Posted September 25, 2006 Good Mornin'! Glad you're doing well!! Talking about tattoos, I have 8. All pretty much hidden though because of work. What will you be getting? actually, i'm getting a tribal piece on my lower stomach. And im getting another on my side. - Again tribal with roses. The one on my neck is the oriental symbol of true love. The one on my back is tribal butterflies surrounding a heart. Link to post Share on other sites
reneet Posted September 25, 2006 Share Posted September 25, 2006 actually, i'm getting a tribal piece on my lower stomach. And im getting another on my side. - Again tribal with roses. The one on my neck is the oriental symbol of true love. The one on my back is tribal butterflies surrounding a heart. That sounds really sharp!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 25, 2006 Author Share Posted September 25, 2006 We talked this morning...its was so good to finally talk like we have in the past. No tension, not worrying what the wrong thing was to say to one another. It was weird in a way.. I wasnt expecting him to act like he was. I have backed off on certain things , because i have been paying more attention to what I need to do for getting healither. Im got going to lie , I also started backing off because i wanted to see what he would do. My thought process was i dont make the move , if thats what he wants he wont put himself out there. Yes i was basically giving him the way out. He didnt take the way out. I did ask him about his sons game. He asked if i was there. I told him no. I told you i wasnt going until we are together and i met the kids. He understood, But i could tell it bothered him. I had to get off the phone before i got upset. And he needed to get some sleep for work again tonight. Everytime we talk, its getting different. We are starting to get closer again, little at a time. Its like we are starting over again. Its hard to explain. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yousaveme Posted September 25, 2006 Author Share Posted September 25, 2006 today in a long time. I FEEL HAPPY. I FEEL GOOD. Since our convo ive had this smile on my face that hasnt been there since she ( w) found out. Link to post Share on other sites
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