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alphamale

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Pada-

 

I think Charlie is addicted to drama.

no, you're wrong MZPIXIE....it is PADA who wants drama. Read her posts over the past 6 months. :lmao:

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no, you're wrong MZPIXIE....it is PADA who wants drama. Read her posts over the past 6 months. :lmao:

 

Hmmm, :confused:YOU know better Alpha!!!

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I know enough to know that I'm correct.

 

--{{{ smack }}}--

smuck...

 

Have a stronger tolerance for Drama --Yes..

 

Like Drama--NO

 

Do I create Drama--NO

 

Liking qualities in a person can lead to choosing to have feelings for that person.

When you choose to have feelings for more then one person--in which they both have such amazing qualities you could see yourself with both of them--and you have to make a choice--one or the other or neither.. It becomes difficult because you have to sacrafice your desire for the one you don't choose.. Its not easy when you want to make a choice you can live with.

 

I don't find that to be high drama.. Its a life decision...

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Had a very wonderful and relaxing weekend. I didn't want to come back.

Charlie was great all weekend. He gave me space. He didn't smother me. He cooked the whole weekend for me. (he always did this). I had a super headache Saturday evening and he gave me a back rub that released all the tension in me. Took me for a Pontoon ride around the lake and Islands. We went 4-wheeling and sat around the campfire all 3 evenings till about 1 am. We went fishing a little bit Sunday evening. (nothing was biting but it sure felt good to cast again.)

 

It was so peaceful and heavenly.. I truly haven't had a vacation like this in many many years.

 

Charlie's brother showed up Friday night unexpected. He was bear hunting in the north woods and came to the cabin instead of renting a hotel room. Charlie asked him to sleep in his ft camper trailer he has set up behind the cabin so I could have access to the bathroom. He didn't mind.

 

Charlie was never attentive like he was this weekend. Especially, in front of someone. He was different in every way. It was very nice.

 

I'm going to give him a chance to continue to prove himself to me. If he stays the way he is or continues to improve he will win me back.

 

TCK would never have given me a weekend like this. He doesn't believe in women doing 'men things'. He once told me if I was in a boat he was going in he would throw me over the side and throw the man who let me in the boat out too.

 

Charlie is companion oriented and believes in doing things together. He looks at me more, smiles and laughs with me, sometimes touched me on my back when he walked by (never did this before.)

 

My only problem the whole weekend was frickin 'SPIDERS', I hate those dang things. YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK. I grabbed about 4 logs off the wood pile for the campfire and a black spider about 2 inch's round (including legs) was on one of the logs so I didn't touch another log the rest of the weekend...

 

I went hunting for chipmunks with the pellet gun. They are digging holes up all over the place and making a nuisance..

 

I feel so relaxed and had a wonderful time.

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My only problem the whole weekend was frickin 'SPIDERS', I hate those dang things. YUCK YUCK YUCK YUCK. I grabbed about 4 logs off the wood pile for the campfire and a black spider about 2 inch's round (including legs) was on one of the logs so I didn't touch another log the rest of the weekend...

 

I don't blame you. Spiders give me the creeps. I don't mind them as long as they aren't anywhere near me. Sounds like you had a great weekend, I'm glad you deserve it! :)

 

Thanks for the picture, too, it looks lovely.

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I don't blame you. Spiders give me the creeps. I don't mind them as long as they aren't anywhere near me. Sounds like you had a great weekend, I'm glad you deserve it! :)

 

Thanks for the picture, too, it looks lovely.

 

The weather was great. I didn't have to cook all weekend. It was so quiet I loved every ounce of it other then the chipmunks teasing us and the woodpecker we tried to kill and couldn't ... The lake was pristine, and I feel so renewed..

 

I came home to ciaos in others lives and I just wanted to turn around and escape again.. Ms. Drama Queen and my Xh were at odds again and of course she is the one who dropped all the negativity back in my lap which I stood up and let it all drop to the floor...

 

Wow, I'm really wondering if she is a big reason why I was so stressed out before. I didn't even get back into town and she called me complaining about her weekend and she was full of attitude and sarcasm towards me.. Hell I got off the phoen with her ASAP and ignored her when I got home. I didn't need all that crap after I had a relaxing wonderful weekend...

 

I'm going to lay back and continue to take it easy for as long as I can. I'm going to finish up my roll of film and get my pics developed so I can post some of them soon.

 

My son's 17th birthday is this Friday so I will focus on him and what I'm going to do for him.. I do know its time to buy him a electric shaver.. He's needing to remove the fuzz!!

 

Theres another pic in my profile..

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The weather was great. I didn't have to cook all weekend. It was so quiet I loved every ounce of it other then the chipmunks teasing us and the woodpecker we tried to kill and couldn't ... The lake was pristine, and I feel so renewed..

 

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Sounds like a wonderful weekend... Killing woodpeckers and chipmunks and all. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

I guess Charlie has a good recipe for both types of meat?

 

Oh did you get some of his meat this weekend....... don't lie. :lmao:

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Sounds like a wonderful weekend... Killing woodpeckers and chipmunks and all. :lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

 

I guess Charlie has a good recipe for both types of meat?

 

Oh did you get some of his meat this weekend....... don't lie. :lmao:

 

My meat intake for the weekend:

 

I had fried bacon in the electic fry pan Saturday morning,

Fried Chicken Saturday evening in electric fry pan,

fried bacon Sunday morning-his too (very well done),

Fried Bass in the electric fry pan Sunday evening.

His steak Monday AM

Steak on the grille Monday afternoon.

 

(I feel like I have a wishbone from the chicken built into my legs today.)

 

Had the best Wisconsin Cheese Curds we snacked on all weekend. Dang those were good... Wisc. the Cheese State..!! :bunny:

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Sounds like it was great. I hope he keeps it up!:love:

 

Me too. The man he was this weekend was amazing..

I don't need him to be doeting on me as much though. I am self sufficient. It was very nice to be taken care of.

He was loving, open, sincere, kind, caring, communicative, attentitive.. He was everything and more then I wanted him to be in the past..

 

Time will tell... 3-6 months will show more of the true light..

I'm taking this one day at a time and I've already told him I will NOT run as much as I did before. I will not be going out every night of the week or weekend... He agreed..

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