Charisma Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 I recently started dating a guy I knew for sometime as an acquaintance. I really like him but I fear that he's seeing other girls at same time as me. I did ask in the beginning if he had a gf but he said he didn't. I also notice a change in his behvaiour. When I first met him he was very shy and now he seems like he's come out of his shell. Which is great since in the past I couldn't even get him to go on a date with me. How do I ask him if he's seeing others? I know that we just started dating, so I'm not sure how to approach the topic? I would love to be the only girl he wants to see...but I'm scared that there's others and it bothers me... Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Did either of you say/imply that you would be exclusive to each other? Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Is this the same guy who you talked with marriage about and the same one that didn't call for weeks? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Charisma Posted September 3, 2006 Author Share Posted September 3, 2006 You're right we never talked about being exclusive with each other....I'm just uncomfortable being intimate with someone who might be seeing others. Yes this is the same guy that I talked about before. Is it okay to ask a guy if he's seeing others so early on? Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted September 3, 2006 Share Posted September 3, 2006 Is it okay to ask a guy if he's seeing others so early on? Certainly it's OK to ask the guy. Just be prepared for a response that you may not like. Link to post Share on other sites
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