Question Regarding well, it seems....

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It seems i have an issue, and well, it's not at all that bad of an issue, it's just that, the bar scene is not for me anymore, yes i'm only in my mid-twenties, but the bar scene has become, well it's become boring and stale and it's always the same people i know, even if it's a younger crowd that i do not know.

 

I don't know all that many people where i live now and the people i work with, well, we can say, they have kids about to enter college.

 

I've tried the internet "dating" thing, and if i like women who live about 100 miles away, it would work, but alas, 3 hour drives or more one way is not my idea of a relationship and good time.. And due to the fact that i work 100 hours a week sometimes, my quest for dates isn't going all that well.

 

I am going on a Cruise with a friend of mine and i need a date for the cruise, i don't have a problem asking young woman out, but a friend of mine told me that she thinks many girls would say yes because they would be crazy not to go on a cruise for free. Yes I'm paying for everything, but that's not the issue here, she just said that many girls would use me so i should be careful in who i take.

 

Anyway that's not the issue, i guess the issue is, how would i go about asking a girl, yes i figure i would need to go on a few dates first and then ask, well i'm not sure whom i should ask, cause honestly, due to work and the fact most of my friends live elsewhere, i don't know all that many people where i'm at, what should i do?

 

thanks

[quankanne]

your friend has a point about being taken advantage. So, instead of inviting along a romantic interest, perhaps there is a female buddy you can ask, someone you'll have fun spending time with because you're already friends. If that's not a possibility, do you have a close female relative who would enjoy such a vacation? It might be a good way of strengthening your friendship with that person.

 

enjoy your cruise, and don't get suckered into the round-the-clock meals!

[yes]

if u'r simply looking for some fun during the cruise, u'r prolly best off picking up a bimbo at some bar ... she'll love the free cruise, u'll get all the sexing u want, and no future committment is really necessary ...

 

no normal r/s can develop out of such a quick start...

 

best of luck!

It seems i have an issue, and well, it's not at all that bad of an issue, it's just that, the bar scene is not for me anymore, yes i'm only in my mid-twenties, but the bar scene has become, well it's become boring and stale and it's always the same people i know, even if it's a younger crowd that i do not know. I don't know all that many people where i live now and the people i work with, well, we can say, they have kids about to enter college.

 

I've tried the internet "dating" thing, and if i like women who live about 100 miles away, it would work, but alas, 3 hour drives or more one way is not my idea of a relationship and good time.. And due to the fact that i work 100 hours a week sometimes, my quest for dates isn't going all that well. I am going on a Cruise with a friend of mine and i need a date for the cruise, i don't have a problem asking young woman out, but a friend of mine told me that she thinks many girls would say yes because they would be crazy not to go on a cruise for free. Yes I'm paying for everything, but that's not the issue here, she just said that many girls would use me so i should be careful in who i take. Anyway that's not the issue, i guess the issue is, how would i go about asking a girl, yes i figure i would need to go on a few dates first and then ask, well i'm not sure whom i should ask, cause honestly, due to work and the fact most of my friends live elsewhere, i don't know all that many people where i'm at, what should i do? thanks

[anon]

Seems obvious to me.

 

I am sure there will be single women on the boat looking for someone to fool around with on an escapist adventure.

 

So go alone and bring your dancing shoes.