Helen Posted August 20, 1998 Share Posted August 20, 1998 If I am sure it is good for someone to become a friend of mine rather than lover, while he would like me become his lover rather than a friend, what should I do to avoid the relationship that I don't want while keep proper friendship? P.S. I used to refuse them with some pity in my mind, which makes me loss possible friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted August 20, 1998 Share Posted August 20, 1998 Simple....say that you just want to be friends right now. If he (or she) can't accept that, oh well. That is their problem, not yours. Be honest with yourself and STICK to your feelings. Don't be pressured into anything. If they are worth your time....they will stay around. Link to post Share on other sites
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