Mydish1 Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 With all that's said and done...we met up today. Things were like they used to be, She dressed and looked great today, moreso than i remembered. With all the little hints she dropped to me today, i hadnt made a move, but i busted her balls a few times and kinoed her. She pretty much laid out her schedule to me and said if im ever free to give her a call. I still do like her, but can go on with my life w/ or w/o her...but im unsure of her agenda. A part of me knows she's a bit of a golddigger, but she has appeared to have matured. The dilemna is she lives in the state next to mine, however we attend the same Uni, and for that reason she comes to my state often. I ask myself, "does she want to get back because it'll be convenient for her, or does she really want to be with me?" What are the odds that school's starting and she wants to get back w/me. Last semester things were going well...(she took a semester off from school) until she moved to the other state and was telling me about how she met this other guy through her cousins. Was feeding me her fantasy crap about marrying him and all that bs, and gave me the friends line. dont know if she was ***** testing me or was for real, so i dropped her and did NC. we hadnt spoken since 2 months ago, she contacted me online and pretended like nothing happened, i spoke shortly and got off...and again the same happened a few days ago and here i am today. I told her ill be busy with school and work, but it does seem that she's trying to make an effort to get me to make time for her. What am i supposed to make of this? Link to post Share on other sites
superconductor Posted September 4, 2006 Share Posted September 4, 2006 Keep your distance, at least for a while. Firstly, it will give you an opportunity for her to contact you (thereby maintaining your power in the relationship) and also give you some time to observe her to figure out what she really wants. There's a possibility that she's playing games with you, and as soon as you make a move she'll reject you. Then again, maybe she does want to get back together again. Either way, by maintaining a respectful distance, you'll be in a better position to figure out which. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mydish1 Posted September 5, 2006 Author Share Posted September 5, 2006 There's a possibility that she's playing games with you, and as soon as you make a move she'll reject you. Then again, maybe she does want to get back together again. Either way, by maintaining a respectful distance, you'll be in a better position to figure out which. I've been wary about that from the start. before today, there were a couple of times she asked me to meet up, vice versa. But neither of us saw it through as both of us were playing games. both of us had the opportunity to stand one another up today...to be honest im surprised we finally were able to meet up w/o the inbetween BS. but i will continue to maintain a good distance and see to it on my terms what happens, thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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