yes Posted February 2, 2002 Share Posted February 2, 2002 why do all the guys i dont like stick around and do their best to woo me, while the ones i do like vanish so soon?... does that mean i should treat the ones i like the way i treat the ones i dont like?... Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 2, 2002 Share Posted February 2, 2002 I think you're beginning to pick up the scent!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Daisy Posted February 2, 2002 Share Posted February 2, 2002 It all has to do with how you act around them. I'd guess that you act completely different around guys you like than around guys you don't like. Maybe you should revise your thinking on how you attempt to attract guys, like stop doing what you're doing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author yes Posted February 3, 2002 Author Share Posted February 3, 2002 Yep, you're prolly right...! I am trying to act the way i act around guys i dont rlly like around all the guys... also, im trying not to like anyone until i know 'em fairly well (ie not to let myself build a fake image of them and fall for it ...) ... I'm also not letting myself concentrate on any one guy ... yah, so i am working on it Thanks for your reply It all has to do with how you act around them. I'd guess that you act completely different around guys you like than around guys you don't like. Maybe you should revise your thinking on how you attempt to attract guys, like stop doing what you're doing. Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted February 3, 2002 Share Posted February 3, 2002 Also when your both intersted in each other and things are going nice that first date than the other person wants to call you four times a day and be with you every evening its a quick turn off. Someone I dated over a year ago started calling me again last week. I didnt answer the phone the first ten times he called hoping he would get the picture but he wouldnt stop so I called him back and told him I was dating a police officer and he stopped calling. Now the police officer gentleman is calling me from the time I go to work to the time I go to bed. I dont want to hurt anyones feeling and I dont want to stop seeing him but how does someone try to control this sort of situation? If your intersted in the person give them the time to think about seeing you again. Yep, you're prolly right...! I am trying to act the way i act around guys i dont rlly like around all the guys... also, im trying not to like anyone until i know 'em fairly well (ie not to let myself build a fake image of them and fall for it ...) ... I'm also not letting myself concentrate on any one guy ... yah, so i am working on it Thanks for your reply Link to post Share on other sites
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