Can I assume she likes me?

[Guest]

Hey it's simple really it is.....

 

If your rich - You're in... no questions asked

If your good looking but not rich - then their is a possibitily but i wouldn't count on it...

If your like me, Broke and nervous - Then " God save us "

[ShadowLegion]

I have A Problem, There is this girl at school I have known her for about 2 1/2 and i liked her for about 2 years i want to know if she likes me or not. There ahave been a few signals, She often smiles at me when i say "Hi" and dosn't look at me when i say it. She also likes to treat me some times unlike anyone else, and she looks at in the hallway, in the lunch room, and gym. We also start convestions sometimes, and my friends always say that she likes me form the way that we act around each other. It's really strange becuase we sometimes had fights like we really were boyfriend and girlfriend but we would make up when we talked to each other. Im don't want to ask her if she likes more or not becuase it might mess up the friendship we have, and it's near the end of the year of school and im kind of panicking even though we are going to be in that same school next year,but i don't want to go throught the same thing that happend the past 2 years. What should i do?

[Chloe89]

if a girl likes you, she'll probally smile a lot around you n laff at all your jokes (even if there not funny). she will also smooth her hair w/ her hands quite a bit around you, n will sneak looks at you. if she seems disinterested, watch her carefully. a lot of girls try to make it seem as tho they arent bc they want to see if you will make the first move. most girls like to be chased, n itz our natural instinct to see if the guy will initiate the flirting.

if she seems shy but you can tell shes ready to start up a relationship, dont wait for her to come out of her shell. just ask her out. itll make her feel more comfortable bc now she knows for SURE that youre interested.

 

also, girls loooove to be appreciated. pay her lotz of attention, flirt w/ her, compliment her looks her clothes her humor nething. n this ones important, stick up for her AT ALL TIMES. even if one of her friends is just teasing her, just be like "thats not true youre not short" or w/e. always deny ne thing negative she says about herself, even if it seems easier to just not say ne thing.

good luck!!

[Guest]

I have A Problem, There is this girl at school I have known her for about 2 1/2 and i liked her for about 2 years i want to know if she likes me or not. There ahave been a few signals, She often smiles at me when i say "Hi" and dosn't look at me when i say it. She also likes to treat me some times unlike anyone else, and she looks at in the hallway, in the lunch room, and gym. We also start convestions sometimes, and my friends always say that she likes me form the way that we act around each other. It's really strange becuase we sometimes had fights like we really were boyfriend and girlfriend but we would make up when we talked to each other. Im don't want to ask her if she likes more or not becuase it might mess up the friendship we have, and it's near the end of the year of school and im kind of panicking even though we are going to be in that same school next year,but i don't want to go throught the same thing that happend the past 2 years. What should i do?

 

 

mmm, sounds like she likes you, but my best recommendation i can give you is don't rush, don't look really desperate, pay attention to her but be suave. Is she really popular? always hanging out with a lot of friends? is she an attention whore? those are all factors on how to approach her and talk to her, such and such. We don't totally know your situation so we can't give you perfect advice. If she's lonely but seems like she likes attention, Pay her LOTS of attention, hang out with her AND her friends, but if she has a lot of friends and doesn't like a whole lot of attention, talk to her away from her friends.

 

Most of all, be yourself, if she does like you, then she likes YOU, don't act any certain way, be yourself, just be careful how you present yourself. Good luck.

[GuestIguess]

and just ask the person on a date. Don't call it a date, but just find something to do with her. For the first few dates it helps if you mention that there will be other people around (she will feel more comfortable) and make sure it is something you feel comfortable doing as well. For instance, if you are not a person that likes to goto the movies or to a club than DO NOT ask them to a club of movie. If you're not comfortable doing something you will be even less confident than you would normally be. After the first couple dates (or whenever you think she is comfortable with you) you could invite her over to your place for dinner and a movie. After she is comfortable being alone with you, you can be sure that she is interested in you. As far as signs go...it all depends on the girl. Remember that if you feel she/he might be interested in you, you have nothing to lose by asking them on a date. I've met girls that throw the signs at every guy they see. They know they are doing it, and the enjoy the attention they get because of it. But if you notice a girl showing the signs that have been listed and they seem to be focused on you, it is a pretty good sign they are interested. I've made lots of mistakes as far as "missing my cue" goes, but I've started to pick up on them and take advantage. The most obvious sign a girl can give is touching you often. Whether it is playful, or just repeated (seeming accidental) or just leaning on you. If a girl is touching you she probably wants you to do the same. But if you get too touchy-feely you could ruin how she feels about you. If she does something to you, she expects you to do the same, show that you are confident. The biggest problem I have is knowing when, and when not to kiss. I always lean toward not kissing just because I don't want to do anything to upset her. Just recently (the past couple weeks) I've realized not doing something is just as bad as doing at the wrong time. If she seems like she wants you to kiss her, assume she does and wait for it to happen, don't shy away or you might not get another chance. I hope this helps someone. (sorry for how often I switched focus during this I should be sleeping right now)