Guest Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 what does it mean when ur bf of 3yrs says hes thinking about marriage but 4 u not to read 2 deep into it?? is he just trying 2 lead me on... a lil about our history I'm 20 hes 28 ... its also a long distance relationship as.. we lived together the first 2 yrs I moved to attend school last Aug.. He got married and divorced when he was 19 and it has left a bitter taste in his mouth or so he says.. Oh yea we had a big blow out in Jun and took a break for a month and just got back together end of July? Since then he has been on good behavior.. I do really love him just wondering if he is trying to have his cake and eat it to.. thats what my family thinks..Please help somebody Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 Do you want to marry him, and have you told him that? He might just be stringing you along by saying he's thinking about marriage. By adding that qualifier of 'but don't read too much into it' he's holding the carrot just out of your reach, but within sight. Your family might be right...he wants his cake and he'll throw out the marriage word to you for as long as you'll stay around to give him his cake. I'd be concerned about the age difference between you. It's not a lot of years, but your 20's are a time of great change emotionally and intellectually. What you want today is not likely to be the same in your late 20's, so by then you might not think he's such a prize even if you do get married. Link to post Share on other sites
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