dreamgirl Posted February 5, 2002 Share Posted February 5, 2002 OK, I would like a guys take on this, please if I may. Would you still persist if you think you still may have a chance with a girl, even if you FEEL/THINK that she's been giving you the cold shoulder? For example, she has not returned your phone calls, through no fault of her own, only because she was extremely busy, and let's say you have been dating for a month or two, but you haven't had sex with her yet? And, what if when you do get her in and talk to her, she simply states that she's been busy as hell etc etc...even though the guy has called a lot of times. Sometimes it was because the girl wasn't home and just simply had tons of other stuff going on, especially with work... Yes, I am in this predicament, and no he hasn't asked me out when we last spoke...Yes, I still like him. No, no feelings were exchanged, it's just as when we last left off, except I could tell he was sorta taken aback, and didn't know what to think. And to be quite honest, I was not sure (am not sure) where this relationship is going. What would you do, gentleman? Link to post Share on other sites
Ed Posted February 5, 2002 Share Posted February 5, 2002 If I were the guy in question and I were looking for a lady to talk with and spend time with, I would try to find someone else who had the time or was willing and able to make the time to spend with me. There are really no two ways about it. You can have all the good, legitimate reasons in the world for not calling him back or spending time with him. It doesn't matter. It's just bad timing that he is currently looking for something or someone that you currently are not. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted February 5, 2002 Share Posted February 5, 2002 You wouldn't last a week in my address book. No matter what the reasons, you are giving major signals that you don't have time for this guy and you don't want to make time. I wonder why you even care about this. Until you clean your life up a bit, take care of business to the point you have some free time, don't even think about dating. It's usually the females who are pissed about not hearing from busy guys at work. Well, this seems the other way around. Like Ed said, timing is everything and you just don't have the time right now. See this from this guy's perspective. From where he stands, he's experiencing a female who basically won't give him the time of day. Why should he continue to pursue someone like that? To be frank, I think you have some fear issues here. Even the President of the United States, leader of the free world, with the weight of an entire nation on his shoulders, found time to get a blow job from an intern in the Oval Office. If you weren't afraid or if you were really interested, you would make time to enjoy this guy's company. You obviously didn't learn much from 9/11. You may not be here tomorrow. What's really important to you? What experiences do you want to take from this world? When you're on your death bed and the doctor tells you that you have just a minute or two to live, are you going to be talking about the people you love and loved...or are you going to be spouting off about all the crap you did at work. God Bless You!!! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamgirl Posted February 5, 2002 Share Posted February 5, 2002 That is funny Tony (about Clinton and his blow job) OK, I get your point. Well, the thing is, I wasn't sure about it. I wasn't sure what the hell his intentions were. Thanks for your input guys. Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted February 6, 2002 Share Posted February 6, 2002 One or two evenings out of your busy sch. is enough to fuse with him. If its more than you could handle, than your sch. is mortifying. That is funny Tony (about Clinton and his blow job) OK, I get your point. Well, the thing is, I wasn't sure about it. I wasn't sure what the hell his intentions were. Thanks for your input guys. Link to post Share on other sites
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