Guest Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 About a six weeks ago my boyfriend and had a fight and didn’t see each other over a long weekend. After we made up, I went to his phone to delete an angry text message I had sent him. In his call log I saw a number of text messages that he exchanged that weekend with a female friend “Jane” that we both went to school with. At first the messages seemed normal “nice to run into you… we should hang out again soon”. This is a friend that I am aware of, but not that he normally spends much time with. A week or so later when we were out late for drinks (1am) on a work night (Thursday) his phone rang. He looked at the call and said “Oh, its Jane. I haven’t seen her a long time. I wonder why she is calling,” but did not answer. It seemed odd to me that a “friend” would call so late during the week, and that he would exclaim that he had not seen her in a long time since had just run into her! Over the past month or so I have checked his call log regularly and seen that either he calls her or she calls him a few times per week, usually at times when I am busy and not around. One time his call log was deleted entirely. If I had not checked his phone I would not have any idea about this! His behavior otherwise is completely normal and affectionate – not strange or evasive in any way. Do you think he could be cheating or starting something? How do I discuss this with him without admitting to my cell phone monitoring? Link to post Share on other sites
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