Guest Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Hi there, I met this girl online about 2 months ago. We eventually met and we went into a relationship. However, after a while things didn't seem right. She kept flirting with my mate and even had a private chat with him at one point. My mate was honest and told me that she was speaking hypothetically about him going out with her. I asked her about this and she became upset that my mate said such a thing. I didnt really know who to believe so I kept a closer eye on things. After that, she kept telling me that she didnt have time to see me yet she always went out with her male mates, and she always made a point of where they were going. I told her my feelings about it and she just thinks i'm too jealous and possessive. What can I do?? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 You judge a person by their actions and not by their words and her actions says a great deal. The bottom line is that she is not into you. If she was she would be wanting to spend time with you. Look she is also attracted to your mate who told you the truth. It does not sound like you are in much of a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I told her my feelings about it and she just thinks i'm too jealous and possessive. What can I do?? Leave her all the freedom she needs by breaking up with her. You can do much better. And no, you do not sound excessively jealous or possessive. Link to post Share on other sites
littlepiggy1 Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I don't you're being that jealous or possessive (at least not from what you've written). But as others have said, it sounds like she's not into you. Dump her and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Spiderman Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Hi there, I met this girl online about 2 months ago. We eventually met and we went into a relationship. However, after a while things didn't seem right. She kept flirting with my mate and even had a private chat with him at one point. My mate was honest and told me that she was speaking hypothetically about him going out with her. I asked her about this and she became upset that my mate said such a thing. I didnt really know who to believe so I kept a closer eye on things. After that, she kept telling me that she didnt have time to see me yet she always went out with her male mates, and she always made a point of where they were going. I told her my feelings about it and she just thinks i'm too jealous and possessive. What can I do?? Simple - Dump her & move on. Link to post Share on other sites
LaGreenEyeZ Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 Hi there, I met this girl online about 2 months ago. We eventually met and we went into a relationship. However, after a while things didn't seem right. She kept flirting with my mate and even had a private chat with him at one point. My mate was honest and told me that she was speaking hypothetically about him going out with her. I asked her about this and she became upset that my mate said such a thing. I didnt really know who to believe so I kept a closer eye on things. After that, she kept telling me that she didnt have time to see me yet she always went out with her male mates, and she always made a point of where they were going. I told her my feelings about it and she just thinks i'm too jealous and possessive. What can I do?? I agree with the person who posted that you should dump her and move on.I know it may be hard to hear because you like her.But if she was into the relationship or took it seriously,even if you guys are just starting out, she would want to spend a lot more time with you.At least i thought thats how it worked when you are into someone.If your friend told you what the conversation she had with him was about, then its probably true, and OF COURSE she's going to deny it, she'd be stupid not to.Which she's not,because she's obviously playing you and doin a nice job at it.This girl is no good.Get rid of her and find one that is worth your time.And as for her telling you that your "jealous and possesive" thats just a way of making you feel bad so she can keep going out and doing what she wants, and you keep feeling guilty about bringing it up. Just my opinon however... Link to post Share on other sites
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