BlueEyedGirl Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 I have known this guy for 7 years or so. First few years that I have known him he used to be extremly shy, polite, and genuinly nice towards everyone and strictly had one girl at the time. Then he got some new friends and slowly started changing. He started drinking, doing drugs, partying, became loud extremly outgoing. He went from not saying one word at a party to becoming the loudest person in there. I know people change but this seems a bit drastic. Nowdays, he dates about 3 girls at once, cheats on everyone and is genarally not a very nice person. I stayed good friends with him since day one and I'm just trying to figure him out, has he really become something he is not (new outgoing personality) or is this really him? I'm confused Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted September 9, 2006 Share Posted September 9, 2006 might be in his jerk phase...happens to almost every nice guy once in his lifetime. People have the ability to change for the better or worse in a short matter of time, it depends how much of an effort they make to achieve those changes. I assume he's probably teen-age? Link to post Share on other sites
DaNziNgQuEeN1 Posted September 10, 2006 Share Posted September 10, 2006 It seems to me like he was probably tired of being the nice guy. Maybe he wanted to change because he doesn't really know who he is yet. Maybe he wants attention and he doesn't want people telling him what to behave like. Maybe he just wants to fit in with these new friends of his. It's hard to tell what it is exactly. It's good that you've remained friends with him despite his change...he should feel lucky he has a true friend who's stuck with him! All you could do really is let time pass. Notice if he changes yet again or if he always remains a player...then you can go from there. Link to post Share on other sites
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