if your gf shows her breasts in public is it ok to not like that

[Guest]

my gf got her boobs sighned by some no name band and says that i shouldnt get mad if she shows her tits to people and if shes at a party its ok for her to walk around topless am i crazy if i have a problem with this?

[Adunaphel]

my gf got her boobs sighned by some no name band and says that i shouldnt get mad if she shows her tits to people and if shes at a party its ok for her to walk around topless am i crazy if i have a problem with this?

 

Of course you are not crazy! The majority of people would feel like you do.

I guess that it's time you have a serious talk about what either of you considers acceptable in a relationship.

[Shyguy86]

Have a serious talk with her. Either she has to change it or you have to accept it. Simple as that.

 

Also I applaud you on not freaking out about it. I would've SNAAPPPPPPPED!

[Bryanp]

I guess you have to ask yourself what message is she giving you and giving other people that she wishes to walk around at parties topless? I don't see in our culture how you would feel very special having a girlfriend that flaunts herself like that. I think the message is don't become serious with her. I think it would be difficult to feel secure about a girlfriend that goes to parties and walks around other men topless. I think most men would be very embarrassed if their signigicant other did something like this. It does not make you very special does it.

[KnowHowLoveFeels]

Hahaha!

 

This is hilarious! You are joking, right?

 

I'm calling this a TROLL.

[kimmillah]

Hahaha!

 

This is hilarious! You are joking, right?

 

I'm calling this a TROLL.

 

 

Got to agree with you. Unless she's a porn star boob flashing is a no no!

[Adunaphel]

Hahaha!

 

This is hilarious! You are joking, right?

 

I'm calling this a TROLL.

 

Not a troll. My ex had female friends who did this sort of things.

To some women this kind of stuff is actually normal.

[Pink Amulet]

my gf got her boobs sighned by some no name band and says that i shouldnt get mad if she shows her tits to people and if shes at a party its ok for her to walk around topless am i crazy if i have a problem with this?

 

Not exactly the same situation... but I have a friend who got implants recently, and whenever I am ANYWHERE with her, and someone talks to us, she will show them!

 

*lifts up top* "Aren't they great?! Feel them if you like"

 

Next thing I know we are surrounded by perverts asking to see mine as well!

 

Needless to say I don't see her much anymore.

 

This kind of behaviour is low class, seedy, and reflects terribly on their company (aka. me, and YOU!).

 

You deserve more respect. Socially, and in your relationship.

 

I think you should let this "girl" go...

[Brittanyjean06]

This doesn't sound like a troll at all!

 

Now the person asking if their butt hole stinks was most defiently a troll...hehe.....

 

 

You are entitled to how you feel, and I think any guy with a sense of morals or respect would feel this way. She might think differently obviously. The best advice was already given either she change it or you change.

[littlepiggy1]

I guess I don't think it's that big a deal, but then again it's legal for women to go topless where I live.

 

If it bothers you, talk to her. One or the other has to change.

[Moose]

I guess I don't think it's that big a deal, but then again it's legal for women to go topless where I live.

 

If it bothers you, talk to her. One or the other has to change.

Women can go topless where you live....you see this as a norm....here it's illegal......but tolerated thanks to our morality being shut down by society.

 

I say to the OP.....unless your girlfriend is ok allowing you to, "let it ALL hang out", she needs to stop.....

 

Unfortunately, you'll most likely get arrested for pervertion, and your girlfriend will have a couple dates lined out with the cops who arrest you......

[littlepiggy1]

Women can go topless where you live....you see this as a norm....here it's illegal......but tolerated thanks to our morality being shut down by society.

 

So boobs are immoral now?

 

(Of course, you're from Missouri, so that explains it.)

[Rooster_DAR]

If our relationship is secure, I would not mind if my S/O showed her boobs in public once in a while (kind of a turn on to me that other people are observing ). My EX nipples are pierced so it's kinda cool to show them off. If other behaviour demontrates promiscuity or her doing this without you around, this could be a problem. Or if it simply makes your uncomfortable and she can't respect that, find another girl dude!

 

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[dgiirl]

It doesnt matter what other's think, it only matters what you think. If you are not comfortable with it, then you have every right to be upset. However, she has every right to do as she pleases too, so if you are not comfortable with it, then find a girl who shares the same morals as you do.

[Moose]

So boobs are immoral now?

 

(Of course, you're from Missouri, so that explains it.)

Where I'm from has nothing to do with it.

 

This behaviour is immoral in my mind, not necessarily the "boobs", themselves....

[Touche]

Where I'm from has nothing to do with it.

 

This behaviour is immoral in my mind, not necessarily the "boobs", themselves....

 

This made me laugh! Glad you don't think boobs are immoral, Moose!

[Rooster_DAR]

I don't think chicks who flash their boobs are immoral! But then again, I a guy.

[Touche]

Well, you can still be a guy and think doing that IS immoral...you can be a guy with morals.

[Guest]

Have a serious talk with her. Either she has to change it or you have to accept it. Simple as that.

 

Also I applaud you on not freaking out about it. I would've SNAAPPPPPPPED!

 

i did and she said that its not that differerent than if i walked around with my shirt off and that there just boobs and its no big deal but i think that in our society showing your boobs gives the wrong impression to people i mean i know if i saw some chick flashing her boobs i would think shes a slut but also maybe i shouldnt be shuch a prude

[rainfall]

I think if you have a problem with her showing her boobies in public then if she loves you and respects you then she needs to stop. My boyfriend said he would not care if I showed my boobs in public because other guys would be jealous of him. However I think he only said that because he knows there would be a better chance of hell freezing over then of me ever doing something like that.

[Rooster_DAR]

Exactly!

 

[jenniferlm]

Got to agree with you. Unless she's a porn star boob flashing is a no no!

 

 

Geez. I've been a stripper for over ten years now, and I don't show my breasts for free at parties.

Seems like she's got a case of low self esteem, and needs constant attention and approval.

[littlepiggy1]

Where I'm from has nothing to do with it.

 

Oh c'mon, your comment and location was practically a cliche come to life.

 

This behaviour is immoral in my mind, not necessarily the "boobs", themselves....

 

What behavior though? Flashing? Or simply being topless?

[a4a]

There are people that think it is wrong to breast feed in public.

 

I think all women should let their boobies out if they want to........ for cryin' out loud they are just boobs..... If you got saggy boobs don't work on your car ladies..... don't wanna get em caught in the fan belt..... :p

(not from personal experience, but I have a vivid imagination)

 

Showing your knees used to be a big dealio too...... or an ankle for that matter.

 

Be nice to boobs...... they out number people two to one.

 

On a personal note I have gotten so pissed at guys staring at my clothed boobies I just ask them...... 'Damn should I just take of my shirt so you can get a better look perv man?'

 

boobies should not have to be taboo......taboobies.

 

If you are bothered by it tell her...... but if men can run around topless I think women should be able to also.... its hot...... and why do I have to wear a shirt when it 105 degrees outside?

 

not appropriate for either gender to not wear a shirt tho if there is a DRESS CODE

[superconductor]

taboobies... heh heh :D

 

Flashing isn't the worst thing she could do. What's worse, though, is that she knows you're uncomfortable with it but doesn't really care one way or another. That's the problem.