My Fate or just my little story

[ShadowU12345]

Me and this one girl went out for about a month and a few weeks. I loved this girl more than anything in the world. The only problem in the relationship was that we never spent any time in person but maybe only 5 times while we were going out. But anyways about a week and a half ago she broke up with me. Just the way she broke up with me was pretty rude. This is how it happened. It was just a normal day after school when I walked to my moms vehicle to go home. While we was waiting for my older brother to come, my mom got a phone call from my older brother. He said that while he was leaving out of the school building my girlfriend was walking by them with another guy. My brother said that while she and this guy walked by she said to my brother to tell me that it was over. He also told me that they were kissing which I haven't even got that far yet. After this incident I actually started to feel better about myself for some unknown reason. Then about a week and a half passed by. The day was Wednesday. I wrote a note to this other girl in my class to try to get with her but the note never got to her. Then on Friday, the day I was for surely going to give her the note she happened to be out of school sick. I know none of this is coincidence. But that Friday night, we have an auction house and on that night my ex girlfriend happened to be there. I walked out behind the building with her little sister and passed my ex who was sitting on the ground looking like she was down in her thoughts. So then I just casually passed by her and walked to the back behind the building. As I did I heard her say "I told you he would'nt want to talk to me." So I stopped right there in my spot and the next second she walked around the corner. The three of us just stood there silent. Then her younger sister said that we could all go take a walk so we did. We all took a walk over to an area where we could have our privacy. Then her younger sister left us alone. Me and my ex just stood there and stared at each other and sorta looked away. Eventually I asked her how everything was going. She said that things were going bad. She said that she broke up with the other guy because he was an ass. I could believe that. We just walked away a moment later because her moms boyfriend saw us and wanted us to come out from over there. About 10 to 20 minutes later I walked out beside the building once again to see my ex sitting there in the same spot as before eating a sno-cone. I stood there and a few minutes later walked over and set beside her. So we just sit there and talked a little bit until the auction was over and she had to leave. Right after she left I thought for a bit. I knew that I truley wanted her back, but everyone around me was calling her a whore for what she had done to me a week ago. They all kept telling me that I would be stupid to go back out with her. But I told them that I give everyone second chances and that this is what fate had decided to happen. The next day I done nothing but think about my ex. So I called my cousin who is the one person that can help me out with any problem and told him to tell his girlfriend to call my ex and ask her if she would go back out with me. My ex never answered and hasn't called back yet. Here I am right now typing this still waiting to get a response from my ex. If she doesn't call back by 12:00, then I am going to call her myself and ask her. This is pretty much how my life is going right now and i'm hoping that it all goes well. By the way i'm only 14 and she just turned 13. In a way she is still childish and at other times when the moment is present she is sorta mature. I myself am very mature for my age. I just had to share my story with someone. Thank You for your time people.

[WiseOne]

I dont have a exact answer to your problem, but its a risk taking her back, i mean can you really trust her?

 

What if she meets another dude someday and takes off running for him, i mean she didnt seem to have any sympathy for you at all, she kissed another guy and didnt even bother to tell you about it herself.

 

It sounds like she was on her way off with this new guy ut it didnt work out as good as she hoped because his intentions were diffrent.

And the part about her being a whore is a little to harsh, i mean do you really want her back after she did whatever she did to receive those harsh comments.

 

Maybe it was a mistake but i still think the decision to take her back should be giving caution.

 

Im not saying dont get back with her, just take it slow.

[shadowu12345<3]

I dont have a exact answer to your problem, but its a risk taking her back, i mean can you really trust her?

 

What if she meets another dude someday and takes off running for him, i mean she didnt seem to have any sympathy for you at all, she kissed another guy and didnt even bother to tell you about it herself.

 

It sounds like she was on her way off with this new guy ut it didnt work out as good as she hoped because his intentions were diffrent.

And the part about her being a whore is a little to harsh, i mean do you really want her back after she did whatever she did to receive those harsh comments.

 

Maybe it was a mistake but i still think the decision to take her back should be giving caution.

 

Im not saying dont get back with her, just take it slow.

 

Thanks a bunch! Thats the exact kind of response I was hoping to get from someone!